Why is it that western white woman are so unapproachable, Whens the last time a white woman actually smiled at you and said good morning sir... I say it to them all the time. Good Morning mam. I hold the door open for them and I don't even get a thankyou.. Woman in this country have no respect for men!
2006-12-08 03:44:30 · 13 answers · asked by J S 2 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
yea, monteal.. whatever... You don't even accept IM and Emails... Your just another one that is unapproachable
2006-12-08 03:50:37 · update #1
Flower, grow up... Nobody can make it on their own... Not I, not you, nobody... We need each other, idiot...
2006-12-08 04:02:24 · update #2
Thanks, I think. I'm an asian-american so I probably fit into the the US catagory of women...
2006-12-08 05:43:34 · answer #1 · answered by Merrily 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like all huge generalizations, yours is only correct on a limited scale. Also, you have drawn incorrect conclusions from your observations. Asian women are not more 'approachable', they are merely trained to be more cordial and polite on the surface. Western women do not have a lack of respect for men, they simply have been trained over time by experience to be leery and mistrustful of men and this manifests itself as an APPARENT lack of respect.
If you're going to try to make cultural observations, it's helpful to actually examine your assumptions and try to understand the underlying factors instead of merely leaping at the easy, unexamined answer.
2006-12-08 05:02:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would think the reason they go for an "average" looking white male is because they generally treat women better. In their country the men are not very loving and usually quite strick....kind of like most studs have many options and therefore dont put full effort into the relationship being they dont have too...It may also be that they care about more important traits than good looks like we are taught in movies and general society. They have higher IQ's!!!
2016-05-23 06:38:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you make the mistake of making an assumption like that? Maybe the kind of "white women" you are approaching is the problem. If you're approaching a certain type of woman (snobbish), you're going to get those reactions no matter what her race/nationality is. You're not as worldly as you think you are if you couldn't figure that out yourself.
2006-12-08 03:50:38 · answer #4 · answered by Kim G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is easy to generalize. You just encountered few women in one place. Have you travelled around the country to make same observations? You will find all types of people everwhere where they will be kind, polite and friendly. It comes in all colors, african-american, jew, white or asian.
Do what you do to asian women, and continue to do that to others. You will see the difference.
2006-12-08 03:51:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Asian Culture teaches one to respect others, smiling is being polite but again it depends from person to person. I ave seen many white women men, they smile but that is a constipated smile but they smile all the time.. but its not genuine. In Asia.... people do not smile at you if they do not know you, thats the culture.... we feel syou are crazy if you are smiling to unknown person. Every one is different. I had many white /guys,girls, give me a cold shoulder but ther are some who are very friendly. I feel its the way they were brought up..dont talk to strangers.... they feel its waste of time or are in such a hurry all the time that they dont feel its necessary. well yeah they are kind of snobish..toooo
2006-12-08 11:33:02 · answer #6 · answered by Kim 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but I think that is a generalization about Asian women. I have met many really imperious, cold ones.
Also, not all Caucasian women are that cold. I know some who are really maternal and are always mindful of their manners.
2006-12-08 03:48:59 · answer #7 · answered by montrealissima 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I believe it has to do a lot with the culture. Asians are normally brought up to respect others (especially elders) and address them with a title (even strangers).
2006-12-08 03:56:00 · answer #8 · answered by gandalf 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Based on my experience, it is not just the women, people in north are relatively cold than people in south. I lived both in north and south. I don't know if it is weather effect or mentality!
2006-12-08 03:55:34 · answer #9 · answered by purplemollies 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never had a problem with approching any women -
with the unkind comments you leave im sure most people do not approach you
2006-12-08 04:33:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn't assume that about all asian women are approachable .. i'm japanese and i don't make anything easy ... but i am respectful of others as well as polite ...
2006-12-08 05:00:33 · answer #11 · answered by common sense 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋