Is my friend dying of diabetes?

Question

I am very concerned about the condition of my friend. She and
I have been acquainted with on another for 3 years now. I met
her in a booskstore, and I fell for her like a ton of bricks. So,
we had some good times together, and our friendship grew.
But things took a turn for the worse. She seperated herself
from me after a deep, dark depression. Then to her I was
a complete stranger, and her friends did not want me around.
That is when I seperated myself from J. I was crushed, but
recovered, quickly. And got stronger, especially after finding
out more about who she was. I saw her again just a few weeks
ago, and she looked ill. Her face was pale, and she lost weight.
This beautiful woman, is suffering in the prime of her young life.
She is only 24. Her lifestyle perhaps has caught up with her.
Can anybody tell me what is happening to my lady J ? And
what can I do to help ?

Well, she is Native American. And this
as been a family illness for many years,
at least that is what she told me. SO.
WHAT DO YOU THINK?

Answer 1

Thats so hard for us to tell you she could be doing anything babes drugs the lot not sure you need to ask her

Answer 2

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Answer 3

Has she actually come out and said she is diabetic? If not when you are together does she need to drink lots or go to the loo lots. These are classic signs of diabeties if she is not admitting she has the condition. It would def make her pale and lose weight and look drawn. She would also feel exhausted.
Bottom line is she needs to go to a doctor asap as left undiagnosed diabeties will only make her feel worse and cause long term damage.It can also cause her to feel depressed as her body is not functioning correctly so neither is her mind.
Diabeties itself is not a killer if you get the correct treatment and learn how to look after yourself properly.
You need to explain how much you care for her and that for her own sake she must seek medical help-whatever is wrong with her needs sorting out. Make it clear that you will support her as a friend. Being told you have a disease like that can leave you feeling devestated but the treatment can make the word of difference.
I have diabeties myself so this is not just idle ramblings.
Good luck with getting through to her. She is lucky to have a caring friend in you.

Answer 4

There could be a lot of things going on with this person. What you need to ask yourself is 'Does she want my help'?
Maybe she is doing something she isn't too proud of and she doesn't want you to know. Maybe she is very ill and she doesn't want to share that. Whatever it is, she is obviously going through something. I understand your concern. You sound like a nice person.
What I would do if I were you is be direct with her? Don't get personal and ask her what is wrong or anything like that. Ask her if there is any way you can help or assist her. Sometimes just knowing that there is someone out there who takes notice and is willing to help is enough. That is probably all that you can do. Leave the door open for her to come to you if she feels the need to. That is your part in all of this. Once you do that, there really is nothing else for you to do. If you become too nosy, or too pushy, you're liable to push her away completely. Just reassure her that you are there for her if she needs you.
Hope this helps.

Answer 5

You said her lifestyle is catching up with her...(I assume she has type1)either way though...diabetics cannot consume alcohol like everyone else, there organs and body just cant take it. shes at higher risk of stroke, heart attack, blindness, organ failure etc...Drinking and drugs,not monitoring your blood sugar, and /or an unbalanced diet can cause major problems for diabetics. Your lady J should be able to live a long and healthy life if she just takes care of herself.

Answer 6

sound like you should get you friend to a DR. Her weight loss could be medical or depression either way try to convince her to see someone.... If it is drugs there isn't much you can do but wait to pick up the pieces

Answer 7

Sounds like she is either suffering from depression or some of the symptoms you indicate indicate schizophrenia.

Answer 8

possibly drug addiction?