what does this mean? he starts his attitude with me, and i get mad at him and he tells me that i was causing a scene...like last nite we went to a friends wrestling match, and he kept calling me fat and pudgy and when i got mad he said that i was causing a scene. he also gets mad at me for simply hitting him (i am doing this jokingly) but its alright for him to hit me, he ran over my foot and leg the other day and i got hurt and all he did was laugh...but if i did that he wouldnt talk to me for a couple of days...how come its alright for him to do whatever he wants, but i have all the rules?
2006-12-08 03:36:56 · 9 answers · asked by ashmstan 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i am only seventeen years old, and he is twenty. we have been together for two years...he took my virginity and that is why i am so attached...i cannot leave him i just want our relationship to get better...
2006-12-08 03:43:26 · update #1
Because he is pyschotic. Why are you with this man? He calls you "fat", especially in front of his friends. Girl he doesn't love you, or respect you. He laughed when he physically hurt you? Why are you still with this person? Do you know where this will lead? He already "play" hits you...
2006-12-08 03:40:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
jordon is protective of u having guy friends because he can sense u like them, and u do. i have guy friends also and i iknow how it feels that ur bf doesnt like u hanging or talking to him. i know uve been going out with him for 3 years soon but it doesnt look good plus hes a bit older and far away. i think jack or anthony are a better match. but sometimes the guys ur not going out with seem better than the guy ur with before. ive had experience of that in my past. also if u dont know if ull go completely gay or jus stay bi, u shud wait it out and see what happens. i know a lot of bi people who end up actually being straight...anyways it seems ur meeting a lot of people online and i guess thats okay but i think its better if you find someone who is near you, that way u can get the physical attraction as well as the emotional attraction or whatever. idk if i helped that much but ya
2016-05-23 06:37:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is all about power. who is in control, he feels he needs to be you disagree.so there fore you are making a scene. Can't see this relationship as going any where but to further abuse, If he can not or will not respect you, and your opinions, then you need to take steps to help your self. Best of luck
2006-12-08 03:42:44 · answer #3 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I WAS IN THE SAME SITUATION WHEN I WAS 16. MY BOYFRIEND WAS CONTROLLING AND I ALSO LOST MY VIRGINITY TO HIM.AT THE MOMENT YOU FEEL YOU CAN'T LEAVE HIM.BUT IN REALITY YOU CAN AND YOU SHOULD.RIGHT NOW HE HAS SO MUCH CONTROL OVER YOU THAT YOU THINK YOU CAN BE WITHOUT HIM.DON'T DO THIS TO YOURSELF,GIVE YOURSELF THE CHANCE TO HAVE A LOVING AND NORMAL RELATIONSHIP WITH ANOTHER GUY.
2006-12-08 04:01:50 · answer #4 · answered by alejandra24fl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That guy is an abusive monster. The sooner you dump him like the piece of trash he is, the better.
2006-12-08 03:44:26 · answer #5 · answered by Mike M. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to beg the question, are you right for each other? Sounds to me, like perhaps it's time for you both to move on?
2006-12-08 03:40:05 · answer #6 · answered by sjc_three 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like hes immature id dump his *** theres alot better then him
2006-12-08 04:16:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because hes a controlling moron.
leave him.
2006-12-08 03:40:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
talk to him and tell that
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2006-12-08 03:40:24 · answer #9 · answered by john doe 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋