I know this sounds crazy, but i can only take so much.I have had to go to work with black eyes.brusies,once she broke my little finger and it really hurts bad in cold weather when i'm working outside on the road maintainence.I dont tell the guys at work what really happen because i'm afraid they will laugh at me.I cant stand her,but i cant leave her without paying through the nose.I dont want to kill her because i really feel sorry for her but she needs to change.She is 26 yrs old and i just wish i could find someone a little dummer than me to just run off with her so i could disappear b4 he brought her back.One of my friends,who is a carpenter said he could build me a safe room & i can lock her up in it,but the sherriff would get suspicous and start looking.Any suggestions ?I cant keep working after she keeps me up all night with her kinky lifestyle.What woul a judge do for me?I need some help!I'll lose my job if i keep calling in like this.She dont care.
2006-12-08 03:24:22 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Dude,
If you love someone, set them free. Most abusers don't realize how wrong it is until courts get involved. The best way to stop this behavior is to get the police and courts involved. Go to the police and show bruises and any diaries or anything that you have, and they'll lock her up. Check this story for inspiration:
http://www.columbiacitypaper.com/wife-beater.html
2006-12-08 06:10:53 · answer #1 · answered by Lemmy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm female and I think men should be able to arm themselves with the same methods of self defence as women do, (e.g. pepper spray). Not all men are stronger than all women, and whoever is the attacker, the other person is still a victim. Seriously, if I was going to rape a man (not something I would do by the way), I would at least expect some physical backlash. Any woman who attempts to rape someone, male or female, should expect the victim to use self defence methods. You just wouldn't try to rape a man without thinking he will retaliate.
2016-03-13 04:44:37 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Domestic violence is a serious issue. Depending on what country you live in, I would recommend immediately contacting a battered spouse shelter for counseling and options. Local law enforcement may be able to offer assistance.
I understand you don't want to have to pay in the event of a divorce, but no amount of money is worth your life. Pay it and move on.
Or, on the other hand, you could start lifting and learning Brazilian Jiu Jitsu. Then put her in her place! I need to meet a girl like this... (sorry, couldn't help it)
2006-12-08 03:29:49 · answer #3 · answered by Quagmire 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is so easy, dude. Next time she attacks you, call the police and press charges against her for domestic assault. Make sure pictures are taken of your injuries and you get statements from doctors. When you divorce her, she'll get the raw end of the deal. You can also file for a restraining order to keep her far away from you.
And dude...if you're impersonating a battered husband for some kind of "laugh"...thats not cool.
2006-12-08 03:30:43 · answer #4 · answered by steve d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
~Good grief. A dumb girl to fun off with? So you're saying this girl is too smart for you? She rapes you and beats you up? Build a safe room and lock her up? Get a life.~
2006-12-08 03:33:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i really feel sorry for u , as u ad to go through all that without even ving a chance to tell anyone about u suffern , i guess u just need to pack up ur bag and leave and dont forget to pass by the police station , she needs to be thought how to live with other people.
i wish u luck and ull need alot of that .
2006-12-08 03:36:03 · answer #6 · answered by noura b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes call the police she assults you and raped you thats illegal both of those are!! Plus she broke 1 of your fingers you need to get out now
2006-12-08 03:28:01 · answer #7 · answered by Nightchild 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh wow!! what are you waiting for leave her!! Just finish the realtionship and find a woman who can respect you and love you. You don't deserve that! Noone deserve to been treat that way...Good luck my friend
2006-12-08 03:29:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, when she gets you in the scissors lockdown. Insert your tongue into her slot and turn....she will then finally figured out that you know what she is doing this for and relax!
2006-12-08 03:39:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Throw her in the garbage. she's trash. go find a fifty cent prostitute and run of to Haiti.
2006-12-08 03:28:33 · answer #10 · answered by Jenny Frick-shun 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋