I need answers from black males only please....im just really curious on why black men dont find black females so attractive anymore? When i say attractive, i mean why arent they into black females as much?
2006-12-08 02:45:19 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I guess they find white girls more attractive or something.
2006-12-08 02:48:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
It’s not because blk men find black women unattractive, I think it is more of a personal preference thing. Typically, I find very attractive black females, but guess who they hang out with, the “thuggish type” guys who are not up to anything productive. Yeah… so if you want to put it that way, it does make you unattractive when you start hanging out with low-self-esteem guys, and it doesn’t have to be a blk guy, it can be any type of guy. Also, I have noticed that many black women have very independent attitudes, which might also draw a good brotha away. After a while, a quality blk guy might consider another ethnic group of ladies because of this. Seriously, there are many “beautiful” and “classy” girls in every culture, but I think that some black women might have trouble balancing these qualities. The same holds true about black women who date other types of men. People like to base their lives based on what they observe.
2006-12-09 10:21:22 · answer #2 · answered by Carrib G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
King Solomon was black so, I'm black?, there is a problem with Black's in U.S., that although they seam physically more powerful than white, and the rest of us, Spanish, they can't afford that much physical demand from their Woman's, that need more masculine refine attention's other than just animal behaviors, sexually or other wise? Sorry but, let me ask, wasn't this the Cause,and the first reason, why in the first place they were to be trade as slaves by their own brother's, because to my knowledge it seams that such attitude will affect greatly the conditions of a woman to exercise,show and express their femininity, and delicate best sexual behavior?, (Nothing personal I hope)?, that would allow the human race, to evolved into a better race, that is steal belong to the Animal kingdom?. <
2006-12-08 03:01:42 · answer #3 · answered by paradiseemperatorbluepinguin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not a black male but i asked my cousin that same question and he told me it is because black women are too loud controlling and they are not down to earth. They always try to make a scene out of everything and when you leave your underwear on the ground they through it in the garbage. I think he was starting to harp on some stuff that happened in the past.
he got back on track and said that we are possessive and nerver give then their space. We depend on them too much. the white woman doesn't do that. So i kicked him in the groin and i told him that if he was dating gettho divas then that must happen to him. There are still women of class out there. But i think the main thing is that the want us to be dependent on them. They want us too need them. When they want to leave, instead of telling them "well fine then, if you want to go, go yuh da mn way i don't need you, you ungrateful S O B and don't come back because love don't live here anymore" they want us to say " honey no please let us talk about it. Let us sit and discuss it sweetheart. No don't leave. i love you" yeah right a black woman will never say that.
That is just my opinion. I thank you.
2006-12-08 02:56:08 · answer #4 · answered by Osunwole Adeoyin 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend used to date only white women. I almost didnt go out with him b/c of this. But I understood when he explained why- he likes alot of different things that are not the "typical" things that most black men limit themselves to-he's more a "lenny kravitz" open minded kind of guy than a "50cent" type-displaying stereotypical hoochie loving,money chasing urban guy type Unfortunately the black women were he lived didnt go for the Lenny Kravitz international type of black man-so he never had luck with them. So he gravitated towards women that were into him-this just happened to be white women. I know how it must suck to have to hide things and explain yourself constantly and not be able to share things with your mate. -so I couldnt blame him after he told me. Im a black women and he likes me because we like alot of the same things and he things Im pretty(that always helps) and likes my personality. I dont feel insecure-i dont think Im his "just for now until a white girl comes along" woman anymore.I've dated many different races so I know its not a matter of skin color but a matter of finding someone you can get along with,thats attractive and has a good head on their shoulders and LIKES YOU FOR YOU.
*all those other black men that are with white women and have NOTHING in common with them have self hate issues and need to look at themsleves a little harder b4 they dismiss black women as not worthy.
one love
2006-12-08 03:22:14 · answer #5 · answered by GINA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have several black male friends. Some of which are married to white women. It is all about how the women take care of themselves, black, white, or purple. Some black women really take care of themselves, others don't. Some white women really take care of themselves and others don't. Men in general are attracted to women who really take care of themselves. Do thier hair, press thier clothes, bathe daily, use lots of lotion to make thier skin soft. Not over do the make up. Smile! When you take care of yourself like you should, it makes you feel good about yourself and as a result, 99% of the time you are smiling. We love to see a woman smile. It's beautiful.
Some black men, who date white women who don't take care of themselves, are mainly doing it because they can. It makes them feel better about themselves to know that they have "the white woman"! They feel like they are taking something from the white man! That's just the one's that are screwed up with this racial thing. Some people can't let the past lay in the past. Me? I say you have to live life at it's fullest every day. If you hate, or are a hater, how in the world can you expect happiness?
2006-12-08 02:54:20 · answer #6 · answered by 35 goodlookinmalefrombalt 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
gurl i don't have to be a male for that, its because black females are to strong and we get stronger so instead of steping up they game they would rather mess with something weak so they can still feel like a man.
Its actually really sad.
2006-12-08 03:58:34 · answer #7 · answered by B 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sorry black female here! but why should you care when there are hundreds of white males willing to treat you like a queen? Do as the romans do
2006-12-08 02:47:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Well,, I am not a black male, but...I dated a black guy once, and HE told me it is because HE finds black women are very demanding, rude, disrepectful, needy, mean, and other things. Please don't think that I think this way, this is just what I have been told.
2006-12-08 05:15:37 · answer #9 · answered by Fuzzy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because theyre crazy but i white and a female but personaly i think whites should stick to white and blacks should stick to blacks cause it really isnt fare that all the nasty white girl are going out with the black boys cause they cant get a nice looking white boy......they need to stay away from yalls men
2006-12-08 02:51:15 · answer #10 · answered by L.E.17 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋