His wife has lied to me and my daughter saying she is dying of cancer.. she goes to the emergency room once a month and has been in rehab for using coke. She makes my kid call her mom. I'm not jealous. I'm concerned for my kid.
2006-12-08 02:41:44 · 13 answers · asked by judiansdaughter 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i don't know if your daughter lives with them or not but tell your daughter that it's O.K for her NOT to call the other women "mom"..this will only confuse your daughter (assuming she is young). Depending on the situation i would NOT let my daughter be around her at all. Good Luck!
2006-12-08 02:45:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are truly concerned for you KID then go to court and ask for restricted visitation due to the info you have provided. If she has been in rehab for coke then she probably has a criminal record. You will need to have proof of everything you take to court. Your attorney should be able to get criminal records and possibly her rehab info. With all these things you might be able to get restricted visitation. Restricted visitation is where your ex-husband has to see your child in your home or with a neutral party in a neutral setting. Like I said you have to have proof of all this to convince a judge. As for her making your KID call her mom that sucks but you can do nothing about it. You can also do nothing about her lying to you both about having cancer or the fact she goes to the ER once a month.....
2006-12-08 02:54:33 · answer #2 · answered by Lucinda M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
doesnt sound like you need dirt on the ex ... depending on your childs age talk to her find out what goes on there when she is there. If you are concerned for your childs safety then contac social services in your area and tell them your concerns. If you dont get the answers you expect then just keep trying. speak with your ex and try to determine what is going on you didnt mention if you or he had custody. but if it a major safety issue and you have custody speak with a lawyer about supervised visitation..
2006-12-08 02:49:24 · answer #3 · answered by candy w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about your X & his wife. You just stay worried about your daughter. If you feel she isn't safe then go to court & tell them what the issue is. She is not your daughters mother & you should have stopped that in the beginning. Your daughter ONLY HAS 1 MOTHER. GOOD LUCK SWEETY with your situation. Juast keep in mind it's your daughter you are concerned over.
2006-12-08 02:50:43 · answer #4 · answered by Nicole - 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on how old your child is, AND if she lives with them.
If she lives with them then hire a P.I. or get outside help to catch the illegal activities. And, talk to your divorce attorney to see what can be done for your child’s welfare.
If your child doesn’t live with them, then you can limit her interaction with the druggie. Talk to your “Ex” and explain to him if he won’t listen,, Tough. But tell him why. Talk to your divorce attorney, and check what the legal requirements are if the “Ex” is involved with unhealthy situations which effect your child. Effectively communicate with your child, if old enough to understand, help reinforce she does NOT have to be involved with this junk.
If none of the above applies,, move on,, stop being vindictive, you have a life to live don’t waste it on lowlifes who couldn’t care less what you do or say.
3 answers,, choose the best one that applies.
2006-12-08 03:36:10 · answer #5 · answered by logicalanswer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call children's services and they will investigate. And why do you allow your child to be put into this situation. Go to the courts and stop the visitation on the grounds of emotional abuse, the use of drugs in the home. Hire a private investigator. Good luck and God bless****
2006-12-08 02:47:04 · answer #6 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't send your kids to there house. Inform there father because of the situation you would rather him visit them at your home or a public place were there could be some type of supervision
2006-12-08 02:48:56 · answer #7 · answered by 女性ウルバリン 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u know all of this and have the proof take ur ex back to court and get supervised visitation with ur ex and away from the new wife...if u dont have proof and just think all of this in ur head then it is called slander and u could easily get sued for it.
2006-12-08 02:44:45 · answer #8 · answered by Michele 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont talk about him or her infront off ure child and if u know all this then go to court u dont need to find anymore if thats the TRUTH
2006-12-08 02:46:14 · answer #9 · answered by babyblue1512000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you have custody of your child? if so you can request a stop visitation .due to your concerns. i hope this helps. good luck.
2006-12-08 02:53:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋