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i m going to marry and want to enjoy more time during entercourse

2006-12-08 02:40:37 · 8 answers · asked by Paki b 1 in Health Men's Health

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If you masturbate a lot, you may have trained yourself to come quickly, which is not so good.

"How much is a lot" is a good question, though!

The more you masturbate, the less volume to your ejaculate, too.
If you want to increase the amount, one method is to masturbate almost to orgasm, and stop. This increases production, and your next orgasm will have larger volume.

There is a lot more to sex than intercourse, so even if you do tend to be short and sweet...you can certainly take steps to be sure you are a good partner.
Most women are just fine with shorter intercourse, as long as they are being attended to in other ways.

2006-12-08 02:49:53 · answer #1 · answered by roadlessgraveled 4 · 0 0

These answers are way too one-eyed. Throughout history and culture older men have been irresistibly attracted to younger women. With girls of 15, a man in his late-twenties can fairly be accused of ephebophilia. At age 17, many other factors begin to come into play: - how mature is the girl? How mature is the guy? Are they good together? Do the families approve, or even know about it? Does the girl have friends? Does the guy have friends? Look at classic Hollywood films where the girl is a teenager still living at home and the hero is a friend of the fathers. In most of these cases, the younger girl is equally as enamoured in the guy. Look at those classic American pop songs from the 50's and 60's: "She was sweet sixteen...". Yeah, and he was like 40 or something. What the asker is describing is a fairly natural and common event. The most important thing to establish is if the most vulnerable of the pair, let's say the girl as she is the young one, is happy. Secondly, make sure that the families of the young girl and that the legalities of the situation are accounted for. In some countries it is quite legal and normal for a 17-year old young woman to date a man in his twenties. Maybe in your country it is not, I don't know.

2016-03-28 23:12:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

MASTURBATION MYTHS:
from http://www.jackinworld.com/library/myths.html

Chances are, of all the things you've heard about masturbation, most of them were absolutely false. For some reason, misinformation surrounds masturbation like virtually no other topic. How do you spot a masturbation myth? One simple method is to ask yourself if the statement is also true of sexual intercourse. When you're masturbating, your body only knows it's getting sexually stimulated; it doesn't know by what means. So, for instance, if the question is whether or not masturbation causes acne, think of it this way: If it did, intercourse would also cause acne. In fact, neither masturbation nor intercourse cause acne.

MYTH:
Masturbation causes hair to grow on your palms.
FACT:
How many people with hair on their palms have you seen?
MYTH:
Masturbation causes hair loss, chronic fatigue, and other problems.
FACT:
Internet scam artists have tried to invent a concept called "overmasturbation," insisting that you have to buy their expensive herbal pills in order to counteract the effect of masturbating more than a couple of times per week. But the pills have absolutely no effect — and masturbating once or twice a day will not make your hair fall out, or cause anything else they claim.
MYTH:
Masturbation is bad for your eyesight.
FACT:
Masturbation does not affect eyesight. This myth probably originated because boys often start having to wear glasses at about the same age they start masturbating.
MYTH:
Masturbation causes your penis to stop growing (or) to get bigger.
FACT:
Masturbation has no effect on penis size whatsoever.
MYTH:
Masturbation causes your testicles to shrink.
FACT:
Absolutely false! It is true that if you're highly aroused, your testicles become engorged with blood and may appear slightly larger and heavier, and that masturbating will make them revert to normal. But they will absolutely not be any smaller than after the last time you masturbated.
MYTH:
Masturbation causes acne.
FACT:
It doesn't cause acne. Like the eyesight myth, this is a case of two things that happen at the same time, even though one doesn't cause the other.
MYTH:
Masturbation causes sexually transmitted diseases.
FACT:
Hello? "Sexually transmitted" means from one person to another. You can't give yourself a sexually transmitted disease!
MYTH:
If you masturbate too much, you'll run out of semen and become sterile.
FACT:
Semen is a fully renewable resource. When you ejaculate semen, your body simply makes more — the same way your body makes more saliva after you spit.
MYTH:
People can tell whether you masturbate by how your penis looks.
FACT:
Masturbation does not change the appearance of your penis. (It does tend to cause an erection, but that usually goes away when you're finished.)

2006-12-08 04:53:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Is Masturbation Normal?
While it once was regarded as a perversion and a sign of a mental problem, masturbation now is regarded as a normal, healthy sexual activity that is pleasant, fulfilling, acceptable and safe. It is a good way to experience sexual pleasure and can be done throughout life.
Masturbation is only considered a problem when it inhibits sexual activity with a partner, is done in public, or causes significant distress to the person. It may cause distress if it is done compulsively and/or interferes with daily life and activities.
Is Masturbation Harmful?
The medical community considers masturbation to be a natural and harmless expression of sexuality for both men and women. It does not cause any physical injury or harm to the body, and can be performed in moderation throughout a person's lifetime as a part of normal sexual behavior. Some cultures and religions oppose the use of masturbation or even label it as sinful. This can lead to guilt or shame about the behavior.
Some experts suggest that masturbation can actually improve sexual health and relationships. By exploring your own body through masturbation, you can determine what is erotically pleasing to you and can share this with your partner. Some partners use mutual masturbation to discover techniques for a more satisfying sexual relationship and to add to their mutual intimacy.

2006-12-08 03:18:06 · answer #4 · answered by Komsat/sad 4 · 0 0

There are no side effects from masturbation and it will not increase nor decrease your ejaculation unless you don't do it for a while and your semem builds up more.

2006-12-08 02:44:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Get another Hobby. Women love sex too, but just don't share it with the world.

Fanticize, dream sexy dreams, read how to please your future wife. Learn how to be a good Husband and Father, this will get you great sex.

2006-12-08 02:46:11 · answer #6 · answered by ? 7 · 0 0

the side effects are pleasure. It last a lifetime.Men (and women masterbate well into their 80's)

2006-12-08 02:44:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Read all my answers on this subject. Stop masturbating. the less oftne you masturbate the more ejaculate you will have. Eat pumpkin seeds.

Are you a virgin. I hope so if you are you are goign to have a great and blessed married life if you are not you are going to have problems unless you do pro active things to change some deep seeded ideas you have which are the basis of unfaithfulness in marriage.

You need to protect your cardio vascular system and build it up. ALl most all of the problems we experience that are sexually dysfunctional in nature are caused by cardio vascular weekness and disease, or the gradual development of those problems.

Email me and I will communicate with oyu on how you can prevent yourself form having heart disease and cardio vascular illness. I can not talk abou tit here the yahoo does not allow it. Yet I can tell you how heart diseaase and stroke can be a thing of the past through diet, nutrition and healthy livieng.

Do you have rockhard erections like you had when you were 18.
What do you mostly fantacise about when you do masturbate. Start believing and realizing God made a wife for you. IF you have prepared yourself to be a good husband ( loveing kind cairng for your partner more than you do for yourself ) then you will do well.
Sex does not take place in the body as much as it does in the mind.

eat whole grains always. Never eat ( stop eating) anything that is enriched, they are enriched with questionalble substances, do not use white sugar or any thing with High fructose or any sort of fructose. Use nhoney to sweeten real honey not the filtered heated kind they sell in grocery stores. bUt honey loaded with propolis and nutrients.

Do not use white salt. You should find and use real salt or dirty salt it has not been distilled as has all otrher salt. Al the prblems white salt complicate real salt prevents form occuring when used regularly for a liofe time. Real salt has the minerals in the form of tiny specks in it looks like dirt. It is good healthy dirt.

Have pumpkin seeds they will strengthen your ability to enjoy sexual orgasms and increase the amount of ***. BUt you must resist the urge to have sex or to masturbate that eating pumpkin seeds will cause you to feel like doing. Save it for her.
IF you do not masturbate at all the semen will build up and after a while ( probably a few onths iof you are used to doing it regularly ) then when you pee after wards probably a little buit of *** will ooze out form the tip of your penis. That will feel somewhat erotic. mildly so. Do not think of it or allow it to make you masturbate. If you stop having ejaculations for a long tim ebefore you are maried and do it with your wife you will have as close to the pure and woderful experience that some have of having their first ( non wet dream ejaculation in the vagina of the wife God created for them. It is an uncommon but very real experiecne for a few in age old cultures and traditions. They think masturbating and or sex outside of marriage is disgusting and teach their children so and do not allow it to be any other way. They have sex that beats the sex in our culture. There are som e of these cultures stil living.

Even in those cultures there is some masturbating but secretly and shamefully and often those individuals end up oput side the culture before long.

If you do masturbate start to make sure you fantacize of this future wife. Not in an anxiuos desire to mate with her but in a great feeling and set of ideaas that you can and could only be satisfied sexually through her vagina. That is a wholesome erotic desire. Desire the wife God made for you. BElevie he loves you so much that he made one special person for you to satisfy your sexula desires.

Then you will prepare yoursel fto be fully invested emotioally with this person and for god's sake do not have sex with her before you are maried. HTink of it as an evil idea and a disgusting idea. Then you will be doing the mental exercises that tend to make a marriage succeed.

Stop masturbating. and if you get erections ignore them. or respond to them by doing somehting that will prepare you to be a better husband and father. Let the motivation to enjoy an orgasm motivate you to be a better lover and provider and ccomforter and humble leader.

You have children and grand children already in GOd's sight. Respect them and love them even though you do not realize they al ready exist in a sense. If you have stayed a virgin then you have respected them. When ever you have sex you pick up new micro organisms form the family line of the perosn you mate with. Each time you have sex wiht another person you pass those same germs from each person you slept wiht along to the new person and pick up more new grems.
Whe a person then marries they pass all these germs to their wife. you cannever get rid of any of these germs. They stay with you and your descendants for ever.
THat is why monogamy and abstinence beofre marriage are very vital practices to preserve your family lines it is what is really meant by the phraze protecting the family jewels.
Having those many more varieties of micro organisms through free sex is harmful to our descendents they mutate and have sex ( the germs do and sometimes) end up causing damage to our genes and or diseases to generations later. GOd ( or nature if you do not believe in God) knows that and this is why there is a strong urge amongst humans to desire one sex partner for life. All our poetry and religious tradition supports this as true.

Those who pracitce absitnecnce till marriag and monogamy afterwards ebcause they realize this truth which makes the idea of anyone else touching your sex organs other than your one mate that GOd or nature designed specifically for you to be disgusting. you do not fantacize about having sex with a horse it is disgusting so then you never have to worry that you might fool around on you r wife by having sex with a horse.
THat is how it should be in the mind so f all humans. Our culture and satan try to get it other wise then it is easy to get us to fornicate and commit adultry.

God save us and help us. Amen.

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2006-12-08 03:11:12 · answer #8 · answered by Answer M 3 · 0 2

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