How do you feel towrds the man's wife??? What makes you do it to another woman?
2006-12-08 02:39:35 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i dont but heres the reason why if i go with a man and he is married or dating its wrong and im the other woman. and for all ya'll that say ure in love think about this if he will cheat on her to go with u whats to say he wont cheat on u to go with someone else
2006-12-08 02:43:42 · answer #1 · answered by babyblue1512000 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My husband was married to someone else when I met him. I know it sounds lame but I really didn't know. I was very young then. She actually knew about me before I knew about her. That's probably not quite the situation you have in mind though.
In my experience, which is reasonable extensive, an affair is not the problem in a marriage, it is the symptom of a problem that the straying partner does not have the ability to deal with any other way. It's a form of escape. I think the third party is able to sense that which makes it easier to disregard their lover's partner altogether. I'm not sure how people deal with it if they actually know the partner though, that must be nearly impossible. I didn't know my husband's first wife but an incident took place after we had been together about a year which clearly demonstrated that she either really didn't want to be with him, or didn't know him at all. I didn't feel bad when they split because she obviously wasn't right for him. They were married 13 years, we've been together 22 so I think I was right. Perhaps there is an element of that in there. The girlfriend convinces herself she is better for her lover than his wife.
2006-12-08 10:53:06 · answer #2 · answered by gerrifriend 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most women that are having an affair with a married man aren't tying them up and having their way with them. There is a reason why the man is straying from the marriage. One of the biggest reasons is boredom. Are you trying to keep things exciting? One of the other biggest reasons is lack of attention. Do you still treat him like an object of desire, or is he just the handyman? And I'm sorry, to say, but girls can be cruel, and women are just grown-up girls. I don't think that in the heat of the moment, a women would stop and say that she can't go through with it, on behalf of the feelings of her fellow woman.
2006-12-08 10:49:29 · answer #3 · answered by bankgrrl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not messing around with a married man but in younger years I did & when I found out I felt terrible. I really think the ? is more toward the man cause he can say no if he was true to his marriage. No need in getting upset with the woman she maybe didn't know or she didn't care. The guy is the one to me that needs the help.
2006-12-08 10:44:48 · answer #4 · answered by "karma" 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I fell in love with him...simple as that. He has been married for a little while but they are not getting along and the marriage is kind of falling apart. We see each other a lot and things just kind of took off. While I do feel a little guilty, I don't feel so bad for his wife because I've met her and she just doesn't seem to care about him at all---AND she has cheated on him in the past. I'm not doing it for the sake of hurting her for any reason, I am doing it because I've met a wonderful man who cares about me as much as I care about him. I would love more than anything to not have to deal with him being married and being torn between me and his vows to his wife, but sometimes things just happen whether we like the way they happen or not.
2006-12-10 08:56:33 · answer #5 · answered by josephine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had an affair with a married man and i felt kinda guilty. for one thing i dont like being second when it comes to sex. and i didnt know his wife really but she had 3 kids with him and i felt like if i was her how aweful that would be so i quit.. now a couple of months ago i talked to him and i really thought about doing it again he had once said he was going to leave his wife but he was going to take the kids no mom should be without her kids so im pretty confused about it . now i have a new man so i havent thought about it that much. but damn he was good.. i fantasized about him sooo much
2006-12-08 10:45:25 · answer #6 · answered by chandal r 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude...I just want to say that I HATE these woman and if any are on here reading this, You are a drain on society and should be put in prison!
2006-12-08 10:42:00 · answer #7 · answered by Dr. Kat 5 · 4⤊ 1⤋
i am 16 and i think that when u you date someone married that is very shankie and hoeish i hate it when some1 dates another person when they are involed with some one eles they should b ashamed 4 that
2006-12-08 10:44:32 · answer #8 · answered by princess 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
alot of times you don't know the guy is actually married
2006-12-08 10:42:06 · answer #9 · answered by sd_andrea86 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I like her, she puts up with all his crap. I just drop in for a good time.
I don't do it with another woman, Men only
2006-12-08 10:43:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋