please help me please......?

Question

hi i need some help.. i'm 13 weeks pregnant and do not feel pregnant!!!!!!!!1 i had a scan this time last week when i was 12 weeks and 3 days and everything was fine and everyone as happy with the baby.. but i can't help thinking that something has happened from then to now???

is they anything i should be looking out for how should i be feeling?? please help me

thank you

Answer 1

First off, calm down, its ok, everything is fine. You wont even feel the first kick for a couple of months. Your doing great as a mom and everything will be fine. Just relax and enjoy your pregnancy. Before long you will be doing the pregnant waddle! LOL. Just enjoy these first few months before you blow up like a balloon. Congrads on your pregnancy. I wish the best for you and your little one!

Answer 2

AMBIVALENCE

Even with all the positive feelings you're likely to experience this month, you may still feel somewhat unsure about pregnancy. Yes, you're over the hump of first trimester miseries, but you still have six more months to go. Some women dread the continued uncertainty over how they will feel. Fresh from the throes of nausea, they may nervously anticipate the later stages of pregnancy when getting around will be difficult. Other women report that they are already tired of waiting, of the feeling that their lives are on hold while they gestate. One woman we know told us she yearned to simply feel like her "old self" again. Fortunately, this ambivalence generally decreases as the pregnancy advances.

DOUBTS
Now that you actually look like a pregnant person it's normal for those doubts you had on positive-pregnancy-test day to resurface. Are you ready to have a baby? Are you ready to change your lifestyle, career, and marriage? Are you ready to be someone's mother? It's normal to have these feelings, at this stage, now that the pregnancy seems more real. Major life changes always bring about "what ifs". Certainly, pregnancy and parenthood are major life changes, and you'd be unusual if you weren't at least a bit concerned about how you're going to cope with them. Thinking about these issues now will make it easier to weather the adjustments after birth. This is time to get worry in perspective. What possible good has worrying ever done anyone? If your worrying fits a pattern you are only too familiar with, consider finding someone (a wise friend, a pastor, even a professional counselor) you can talk with.

Answer 3

Ya know... I asked this exact question when I was 13 weeks... Now i am 16 weeks... And I still do not feel pregnant, My babies heartbeat is perfect and everything has came back great for he/she. Don't worry about it, if all of us are feeling the same then there is nothing to worry about. Be happy that you feel sooo great! The baby is just giving you a break for all the heck he/she is about to cause you in your 3rd trimester! lol

Answer 4

It's very common to not feel pregnant at this stage because the morning sickness etc stops but it's too early for the baby to be kicking. I don't feel pregnant most days, it's only my growing bump and the baby kicking away that alerts me.
Relax and enjoy this time. Your body would tell you in a painful way if something was wrong.

Answer 5

I thought you said you were 13 years old then! Nearly gave me a heart attack! sorry, i shall get to the point. I haven't ever been pregnant but i guess you should have some form of sickness (with my mother she felt sick in the evenings, not mornings.) I think your just worried and a bit paraniod, talk to your partner or a reltive who's been pregnant before. I'm sure your baby will be absolutely fine.

Good Luck and Merry Christmas xXx

Answer 6

stop worrying if the scan was fine chill out the only time you should worry is if you have bad bleeding or server cramps. Many women dont feel pregnant for ages so stop worrying you will soon start to feel pregnant. Good luck and i hope all goes well for you.

Answer 7

i know how you feel! i am 11 weeks myself, and all of my morning sickness has finally passed, and im starting to feel more like myself for the first time in weeks, and i have had thoughts aswell that i just no longer feel pregnant. i think its due to the fact that all of those annoying little reminders such as morning sickness has passed, and because at this stage its not obvious im pregnant, you worry.
this could be the same in your case.
if you had a scan last week, then dont worry. just enjoy feeling better, because in time you will feel VERY pregnant!
hope that helps.

Answer 8

Oh honey it is so totally natural to worry about your unborn baby! If you didn't worry I would think there was more wrong with you. It means you're a natural mum. Get used to that feeling it never goes away. When they're at school or even when they're asleep, you constantly worry that something bad is going to happen. It's the maternal instict kicking in - that feeling means that you are bonding with your baby. Be happy, so many mums find it hard to bond but it sounds like you're already worrying abou the little one - he/she is fine!

Answer 9

I have 2 kids and i found with both pregnacies i didnt "feel" preganant other that the nausea until i actually started to feel the baby move, if something were wrong you would know...your body would give you a sign... so if your not pucking in a trash can enjoy the easiest part of your pregnancy and relax.

Answer 10

You are fine! I didn't really "feel" pregnant at all until about the 8th month. I felt fine. When the morning sickness starts up you'll feel pregnant unless you are one of the lucky ones who don't get sick. Don't worry enjoy that time cause in a few months you'll be miserable.