I'm 30, he's 27. I hav an intimidating personality when it comes to men, period; And he's very passive. Used to F*@# like rabbits. We hav been together for 4 years, and hav a very strong bond, BUT... I love sex, he avoids it now - or I feel that way, I guess. I want it like 3-4 times week, he settles for 1-2 month?? Great relationship and both still "In Love". Am I too dominating or isam I missing something here? He isn't the "Cheater" type, by far... Says he wants it, but feel that he's just not as flamboiant as I am. Personally... and i've been told, im every man's dream! What do I do? And keep it real, Please!
2006-12-08 02:34:32 · 13 answers · asked by bbygirl529 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I have tried EVERYTHING... toys, clothes, positions, ect... I'm a passionate freak, - n a good way.
2006-12-08 03:01:42 · update #1
Its the same situation that I am going throught with my girlfriend. We have been living together for 2 years now, and the first year round we were f*&^in like no hell.
But when time passes, it happens that you will end up having sex once a week or so. I actually havent figured out whats the real deal yet but I believe that the main thing is sex drives gets little slow and also the stress and problems that runs through your mind. We try different new things to spice up a little bit sometimes which makes the play smooth for a time being. Probably you have to do the same, read some books about perfect positions and oral fantacies and try seduce him like a s1Ut!!!!! hope that will definately work! :P
2006-12-08 02:48:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well this is the advice for you. The question is yall having SEX or making LOVE. Coming from a married women of two years sometimes a man just want to relax and make love and not just have sex all the time. maybe if yall role play or just make it more interesting for him, like teasing and wear sexy under clothing for him. maybe a little strip tease. The best thing is in the morning when you get up tease him so when he or you off to work in the morning he would have something to remember and when he gets home do the the same. if that doesn't work, he might be gay and dont know how to tell you so he rather not have sex with you but have sex with you sometimes just to satisfy you.
2006-12-08 03:09:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is experiencing a physical problem that he doesn't want to tell you about ... this is very possible. Is he taking any medication such as antidepressants? From what you said above, it seems like his problem really might be physical, but believe me, some men are not comfortable admitting this--even if you have an open and honest relationship. So don't be too hard on him until you find out ... and don't put him on the defensive or make him feel bad. I have found that it is very easy to be mean when you feel rejected, so be careful not to hurt his feelings.
2006-12-08 04:45:57 · answer #3 · answered by danika1066 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As far as you are concerned, 3 - 4 times a week is a very healthy and normal sex drive.
Talk to him and let him know how this makes you feel. Maybe there is something you can do in the bedroom that turns him on and will want more! ie, dressing up, role play, massage...etc.
Good luck!
2006-12-08 02:50:43 · answer #4 · answered by papersac 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you kidding me??? This is the 2nd question I've seen like this in the past 2 days. Can you ladies bottle this sex drive up and sell it to me?? I'd pay greatly for it!
Your man needs to appreciate what he has. Maybe he's feeling less manly or having trouble getting aroused now that he's in his 30's, I don't know, just some suggestions to his sate of mind. You should take the time to talk to him about it. This topic just blows my mind.
2006-12-08 02:43:00 · answer #5 · answered by D.I.L.L.I.G.A.F. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I want sex 2-3 times a day and I usually only get it once, but sometimes a man's penis does get sore from too much sex. Maybe he is bored with sex so why not try fulfilling each others fantasy', role playing, going to a restaurant and tell him you aren't wearing any underwear...
2006-12-08 02:52:18 · answer #6 · answered by marissa v 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you both have different sex drives which you too clearly do then, yeah! I got married eight months ago and I'm already slowing down. My husband wants to go like a freaking rabbit!
2006-12-08 02:39:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There could be stress or other factors that are causing him to not want it that much any more. Or it could be possible that his sex drive is slowing down a little. Talk to him in a way that he feels comfortable and maybe you two can figure it out together.
2006-12-08 02:40:25 · answer #8 · answered by williamcoulson 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unusual for a man of that age to have such a low libido. Maybe there's something wrong physically with him. Try oral sex on him and see if he will get a bit more energy.
2006-12-08 03:13:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-17 23:45:07 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋