I've always had a problem with premature ejaculation and would like to know how to keep this from happening. Does frequency of sex effect this? My penis seems very sensitive and very hard to control once intercourse has begun. My girlfriend and I have sex about once a week or once every two weeks when we see eachother.
2006-12-08 02:19:30 · 12 answers · asked by chodepa 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
This should be controllable by doing some of these things......
Masturbate daily to eliminate/reduce "urgency". Especially make certain to masturbate the day before you are with her and the morning you are to be with her.
Have sex with your girlfriend much more frequently. You didn't mention your age, but once a week or every two weeks is a very low level of lovemaking. Much more common is 3-5 times per week. Many couples exceed that level almost every week.
Use desensitizing cream on your penis. They are widely available.
When you have sex with your girlfriend, accept that you will ejaculate quickly the first time, but keep cuddling and repeat with a second round of intercourse in about 15-30 minutes. The second time you should last a whole lot longer...less urgency.
2006-12-08 02:44:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you sound very young, and that is a problem commen in young men. A technique that you could try is masterbation, but with a twist. You have to build up stamina to do this, and of course it can be pleasurable for you at the same time. However there is a twist to it. When you masterbate, get yourself almost to the point of ejaculation, then stop until the feeling passes. Squeezing the head of your penis may help. Do not let yourself succumb to ejaculation. I know it is frustrating, but it does work. As soon as the feeling passes, start again. Keep doing this a couple times then let yourself go. I would practice this a few times a week and in time you will find that you can last longer and go farther than you have been able to before. Good luck.
2006-12-08 02:32:22 · answer #2 · answered by lyfsavr1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-08-10 00:41:15 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-17 23:44:41 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't feel like you are alone. Most young guys have this problen to some extent or another.As you get older,t you will be able to control it more.a As you get real old,the reverse happens and you may not be able to ejaculate at all .It's called LIFE.
2006-12-08 04:20:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
alright 1st thing u can try is the easiest SLOW DOWN when u fell like it's coming up take ur time 2nd thing 2 try if u guys use condoms get the delayed pleasure trojans... lol it works i went 4 9 hours ... it was our 1st anniversary.
2006-12-08 04:37:43 · answer #6 · answered by corupt2005 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2006-12-10 19:14:08 · answer #7 · answered by Afriend 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep practicing, and see a doctor. There's medical help for that.
2006-12-08 02:24:22 · answer #8 · answered by myperfecttension 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-03-31 09:06:06 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I tried one of those "Delay" type creams, but I came while I was rubbing it on.
2006-12-08 02:43:23 · answer #10 · answered by Mad Roy 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋