I have tried for many many years she only come for intercourse onece for 3 days. I ejaculate by shaking by my self during those day gap more than two times a day. But she is not helping me by doing hand job even. Now i am trying with prostitutes. But other than going to those girls am thinking to have a sex partner. How can i find her. How can i make it perfectly with good one.
2006-12-08 02:13:25 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
There's a lot more to a relationship than just sex. Hopefully you'll learn that before you drive your wife away completely.
2006-12-08 02:17:10 · answer #1 · answered by auskan2002 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are in a tough and dangerous situation. I'm sympathetic because I've been there. But, I will tell you that you are putting your life at risk as well as your wife's by using prostitutes. I'd put a stop to that immediately if I were you. I believe your only hope is to communicate with your wife. Don't lecture her, but tell her how you feel. You must also listen to her reservations for not being as sexually driven as you. Counseling will help if your family can afford it. Not communicating is something your marriage can not afford if you wish to salvage it. If you can not come to a mutually satisfying conclusion/agreement, I am afraid your marriage is doomed. A healthy sexual relationship is critical.
In my situation, I cheated and got caught. Within three years my marriage had ended with a lot of heartache on both sides. There was no communication. In my new marriage I make a point to communicate. It's essential. I hope you two are able to talk about it.
2006-12-08 02:18:59 · answer #2 · answered by CPT Jack 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Seek counselling man you have a problem with sex as in an addiction if have the moronic attitude to screw prostitutes and then look for a sex partner you should not have gotten married.
You are a disgrace to men and to the vows of your marriage
I'm not to judge God will do that in the end you have to get a divorce do not put your wife through this crap she deserves better then you period.
2006-12-08 07:03:56 · answer #3 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are the problem with this world today. If you are not getting the sex you need in your marriage. You need to let her know! There are reasons whey she's not opening up to you sexually like you want. It's because you are not there for her emotionally. Women need and deserve attention throughout the day. You can't expect to go to work, dont' talk to her all day, and come home to a horny wife, ready to give it her all.
Until you understand the femanine side of yourself, you'll never understand what a woman needs. Without understanding what a woman needs, you'll never be able to satisfy her! If you can't satisfy her, why in the world do you think she'll want to satisfy you?
Quit being so selfish, and learn to love your wife. Dude.... you might try getting to know her!
2006-12-08 02:18:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you need to do your wife a favor and divorce her. You have violated her in so many ways yet you only see your wants and your needs.
By going with another woman, especially a prostitute and having sex with your wife you are putting her health/life in jeopardy. You are subjecting yourself and your wife to numerous sexually transmitted diseases and illnesses. And no, there isn't a cure for HIV/AIDS or Hepatitis! This shows that you don't even care about your wife on the basic level of her health or safety.
Second, you should have had the decency to communicate with your wife and tell her that you are unsatisfied with your sex life. This doesn't mean that she would improve but it would have given you the opportunity to find out why she doesn't want to have sex and it would give you the opportunity to have your needs addressed. Infidelity is uncalled for and in my books unforgivable. Your wife deserves better.
2006-12-10 03:55:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell your wife what you want from her. If need be tell her you'll have to leave if the two of you can't reach an agreement. You should have done this before you married her. If she is unwilling to go along start a divorce proceeding (this may make her rethink what she's going to do). Get to know your new wife better before you ask her to marry you,
2006-12-08 02:27:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your wife will only give it up every three days? Count yourself lucky...most men claim they get FAR less then that. Cheating is no way to go. If you can't control your urges then take care of your own needs manually or with sex toys. You don't want to bring home a disease to your wife, nor do you want to spawn children with someone else.
2006-12-08 02:34:59 · answer #7 · answered by Erika B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont do it.
See a counseller and talk about your problem with your wife, she has to try to understand your need. If she cant keep up with you, dont blame her, but try to do something to reduce it, maybe activities together, or more quality time, or extra work.
Whatever you do, dont get a sex partner, its...pity you know, just for sex
2006-12-08 02:17:36 · answer #8 · answered by rhea 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess that your wife is a normal person, once in 3 days is good average. U should consult a doctor.
Aren't u satisfied by masturbating alone ? Most of the men do that during the gap, don't they?
Please don't go with the prostitutes....
Try doing more sports to change your mind, it might help.
Good luck ..
2006-12-08 02:21:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, work on your writing skills then consider getting counseling. You're obviously addicted to sex. I mean, you're seeking prostitutes to satisfy your sexual needs when you know you're married. Sick, disgrace to all loyal husbands out there, get help!!!
2006-12-08 02:21:41 · answer #10 · answered by pangfvlx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋