I am so tired of going through school liking girls that I cant go out with or "they just dont like me that way". I have only went out with 3 people since I have been out of 6th grade. Even though some girls that I like, like someone else or their parents arent allowing them to have boyfreinds. I am getting tired of this. Why should I even bother? And what should I do?
2006-12-08 01:49:17 · 14 answers · asked by cody c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Chill....there are bigger problems to be had throughout your life.
When you mature a bit, you'll look back on this in retrospect and realize that this is no big deal. Besides, there is sooooo much "drama" that goes along with school-aged relationships...be thankful at times that you don't have all that complication! :-)
2006-12-08 01:53:17 · answer #1 · answered by secret_oktober_girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen. I'm 29 now. When I was 16, I was 5 foot tall. I heard "I don't like you like that" 100 times between the ages of 14 and 20.
These people telling you to wait it out, be patient. What the hell do they know? There's some things you could try: get a great haircut/clothes/etc.... But there's no guarentee, right?
I will say this - when you're in your 20s, women start looking for real men instead of good looking assholes. (some anyway). I can't say the same for us men ( ;
At around the age of 20/21, things started changing for me. And - I was much better off going as long as I did without women. Sorry to say it, but relationships get in the way. We're all better off single till we've established ourselves and our career.
2006-12-08 09:57:56 · answer #2 · answered by lucky 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe the problem is with the kind of girl u are finding yourself interested in. try making friends with a girl u can respect and admire because of who she is not how she looks. these girls are the ones that are really going somewhere. don't get so down over this. by the time u are out of high school and off to your life i will bet women will be knocking on your door. if it really doesn't bother you then girls will know that and find that attractive. start looking for good friends and not girlfriends that will just drive u crazy anyway. set your standards high and good luck.
2006-12-08 10:12:31 · answer #3 · answered by skylinbaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't talk like that; you are still young, too just "give-up!"
Do your best in school! It will pay-off for you in the long-run!!
Be yourself, don't act or look "desperate, worried, or a looser!"
Girls are No-Different than you; they don't want to be around someone who is "Down" or who lacks confidence in themself!
Your parents would not want you "to go out" with just any Ol' Girl that you meet, so you have to respect those Girls parents that feel they are too young to date...
Good things come to those who wait!
Be patient! Do good in school, think and act "Positive!"
You will see the changes in your life turn around for the better; and before you know it, The Girls will be asking you to take them out for a date!
2006-12-08 10:01:28 · answer #4 · answered by 1moe4u 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should stop worrying over situations that you have no control over.For one thing these people that you go to school with are not permanents in your life. Most you will never see again so why worry over who you like and who likes you ?high school is the testing ground for all that's bad in life and all that could be good. You don't have to worry over any of those people for they are just temporary stops on your road to life.
2006-12-08 09:57:09 · answer #5 · answered by punkin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously it wasn't meant to be with these people. Stop yourself from becoming bitter. That is NEVER attractive and girls/women will always pick up on the fact that you're a bitter person.
2006-12-08 09:52:08 · answer #6 · answered by purplemonkeydiswasher_2000 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont bother, you have plenty of time to think about dating in the future. Do you, continue your education and be somebody. Girls are a headache anyway.
2006-12-08 10:05:39 · answer #7 · answered by short 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
move up to college women...they arent as pretentious as some high school girls, just hit some friday nite partys on campus and you will find a more receptive group.
2006-12-08 09:53:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thats right just give up, dude have a little self confidence! Just talk to her parents,if the gal agreees,tell her you could talk to her parents, OR///There is a realy nice girls who adores you, but your just focused on what uyou want, im sure if your a nice or funny Guy,there is one girl you dont Notice but she notices you...
2006-12-08 09:52:47 · answer #9 · answered by Nuthin_Fancy 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
THATS A SIGN THAT SOMEONE BETTER IS OUT THERE DONT GIVE UP JUS GIVE IT A REST TILL THE RIGHT PERSON COMES ALONG UNTIL THEN DONT WORRY ABOUT IT PLUS WAT HAPPENS WHEN U GET IN A WRONG RELATIONSHIP AND WANT OUT SO JUS CHILL OUT
2006-12-08 10:09:18 · answer #10 · answered by princess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋