2006-12-08 01:38:58 · 21 answers · asked by ~~MISSY~~ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Unless I think it's a really good Christmas or Birthday present, I wouldn't put up with it. Marriage is all about gtrust and honestly and I would sit him down and tell him he needs to be upfront with me and what is going on and I'd want to discuss it with him. Guys don't generally like to discuss things - my husband actually stands in the doorway of a room anytime we have any type of disagreement - its the easiest exit point in the room.lol
2006-12-08 01:43:47 · answer #1 · answered by Rae T 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well what I do shouldn't be what I should be doing but when I think he's trying to hide something from me, I try to pry it out of him but in a sneaky way.
For example, if he talked to a certain person, I would say something like, you know who I haven't talked to in a while.. and then say so and so and then ask, have you talked to them lately? If the answer is yes then I know he's not lying and if he says no, well, I think you get what I mean.
I know it's putting him in a corner but I honestly don't know how else to go about it. Sometimes for me, talking isn't enough. I hope it works out for you.
2006-12-08 09:42:51 · answer #2 · answered by Minouners 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What exactly is he trying to hide?? Another woman or a Christmas gift??? Communicate with him for heaven's sake--he's YOUR husband.
2006-12-08 09:42:00 · answer #3 · answered by smeezleme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Without more details there is no way to really help you with this question.
What do you think he is hiding from you?
2006-12-08 10:05:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This depends on what you think he is hiding.
What do you think he is hiding, it would be best if you just asked him. Whatever his answer is trust him he is the man you married.
2006-12-08 09:46:23 · answer #5 · answered by that guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like that sign Karen.
But, if you think he is hiding something, the only thing you can do is ask him. If you snoop, then trust is shaken on both sides.
2006-12-08 10:08:23 · answer #6 · answered by L Jeezy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think that since he is your husband, you should talk to him and find out what is going on. And if you must take measures to find out what is going on. Having secrets within a marriage is not healthy. Good luck and God bless****
2006-12-08 09:41:11 · answer #7 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start by asking him and tell him about the suspicious behavior you have noticed. If you think he is being dishonest then you can try snooping, but I was once told "becareful what you look for because you may actually find it."
2006-12-08 09:41:39 · answer #8 · answered by Cyber Stalker 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask him about it.If you two are old enough to get married.You are old enough to sit down and have a mature discussion.Or at least one would hope you are mature enough to if you are married.I know that is how I handle my relationship with my husband.I just ask him.Straight out I don't yell or accuse I just inquire
2006-12-08 16:56:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him, my husband can't even keep my Christmas presents a secret from me!
2006-12-08 11:00:27 · answer #10 · answered by Aumatra 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋