What should I do? (I cutmyself and last night thought about cutiing an vein should I tell my guidance counseal

Question

I was in class doing my work copying notes off the board. And As I was doing it something hit my face,and then I opened it and read it, it was stick people of my friend Asnley and some boy.And then I showed my friend and then the person who threw it at me got mad because me and my friend read it.So I have an gap in my teeth and I wear glasses, well i don't wear them, only when i cannot see but I was wearing them in class so the girl got mad and drew an picture of me on the board.
But I was pissed because she trying to draw me butt teeth and an huge gap my gap isn't that big.(i'm in the 8th grade).
I started to cuss her out knock her stuff down then it got to the point i wanted to fight her.Yes my friend was pushing me out of the door and when i want to fight i have the tendancy to cry.. This was about to be my first fight, of course I'm black and it was white girls, then I tried to snitch on them.The bad part is that they don't know I cut myself and I was about to kill myself.

Well I wanted to tell the guidance consealour about my problem but i don't know what to say.

GIRLS WAS DOING IT..
I USE TO BE POPULAR 7TH GRADE..8TH GRADE I'M STAYING LOW.

I don't want attention, I just really want to tell the guiance counsealor i was suppose to go today on Friday but then on the radio it said that school was delayed so my parents decided to not let me go to school.

Answer 1

Please seek help and talk with someone older than you who you can look up to and resecpt. Don't let immature people effect your emotions or your choice for life.

Answer 2

Sweetheart, let me tell you that once you get to a certain age, popularity doesn't matter. When you graduate high school, no one remembers who was popular. As for the girls being bitchy, they do it because they know it will bother you. They do it to make themselves feel better. As for you trying to hurt yourself, remember that the only one you're hurting is you. You're not getting back at the girls who made fun of you and your not proving anything to them by doing it. If anything you're giving them more power over you. They've upset you to the point of hurting yourself. You do need to talk to someone in order to find a different way to release your anguish. I know you said you're home from school today so try calling your doctor. It's always a good place to start. Or even with your parents. Or some other adult that can help (aunt, sister, mom's best friend) anything. But you need to talk to someone. And remember no matter how you feel saying it out loud, it's not dumb and it's not stupid. Definitely talk to someone soon. Do not convince yourself it's not that important and you can work it out on your own.

Answer 3

I take care of teenage delinquint boys and girls and the only reason they cut themselves and I'm sure it's the reason you was wanting to do it is for attention,,,,,,,not to kill yourself. Being black and white is not an issue unless YOU make it an issue. Being in the eighth grade is an awkward stage for anyone,,,,,,who knows,,,,,you might grow up to be a model and the other girls may be deadbeats. Now noone is innocent,,,,,I've done my share of fighting and all it does is land you in jail. Or for me to take care of ,,,,,,,it takes the BETTER person to turn the other cheek,,,and that doesn't make you a chicken sh@t,,,,,it just makes you REAL. I really hope you grow up some and realize that black and white is usually an issue when the Blacks makes it one and your gap in your teeth is no big deal either. Just relax and enjoy your youth. And YES you should talk to someone you trust before your anger gets to out of control.

Answer 4

Hon, yes, talk to someone. Someone who can help you with your issues of suicide and cutting. Those other girls are being hateful and nasty. Yes, they deserve their heads cracked open for their callous nonsense, but, you don't have to be the one get into trouble for it. There is something in the world called Karma. Basically, it's the idea that everything has a way of coming back to you. So, if you do something mean and nasty, it will catch up with you in the end. You might not be around to see these girls get their comeuppance, but, they will get it when they really need some help.

You have something to contribute in this world. Keep going to school, keep learning, you will make a difference out there.

Peace.

Answer 5

Please talk to someone you trust, if that is your guidance counsellor, then speak to him or her. You need to talk about how you are feeling before things get out of hand. Take it from me, sweetheart, I am a lot older than you and I have struggled with self-harm for well over ten years now, and it is horrible. Don't let yourself fall into that cycle. Break it now while you still can. Don't let anyone tell you that you are ugly or worthless, because you are NOT. And don't listen to the people who tell you you are attention-seeking. Self-harm is NOT attention-seeking, it is a coping mechanism - but it's destructive and a horrible pattern to fall into. Find someone you trust and talk to them about it. I wish you all the very best, honey, be strong, you are better than them. Lots of love.

Answer 6

As you wrote this did you realize how silly the situation is? Think about it you are mad because of a drawing. I think maybe you should tell your guidance counselor what happend. It sounds to me like you have a lot of anger and it does not take much to make you very upset. Talking about what happend will help you understand how you could have avoided the situation and not gotten so upset. Please realize that cutting yourself will not help anything, stop this habit right now before it gets worse and takes over your life. You need to talk to the counselors, they will be able to help you! Counselors are ready to Handel a situation like yours so do not be scared to ask them for help. Well you should go on Monday to talk to them, take this weekend to figure out what you want to say. You just need to learn how to handle your own anger. Being that you are young you are going to make quick decisions without thinking about it, but it gets better once you get older. Next time you get upset just think about why you are upset and the best way to handle it. I think if i were in your shoes and a girl put a picture up on the board of me because she was mad at me I would've been like, hey i didnt mean to make you mad and gotten u and erased the picture. Really people will respect you more if you are calm and try to talk to them. I hope you realize whats best for you! :)

Answer 7

People can be really sh*tty, especially in the 8th grade. Just hang in there, i know easily said than done, but I made it. I used to get made fun of too, i had unusually frizzy ugly hair. I would definitely tell ur guidance counselor. i think u know what to say, if u have to, print out what u wrote us... just asking for help is the first step so ur on ur way, don't cut ur life short because of some snobby trick a*s*s b*tches...

Answer 8

do you talk to your parents? if so, tell them about your feelings and school problems...

if you like your guidance counselor or anyone else at your school.. TALK TO THEM.. that is why they are there getting a paycheck..

it doesn't matter if you are black or white or any other color.. everyone (bad teeth or good teeth) deserves to be treated with R-E-S-P-E-C-T

so talk to someone, but that won't stop stupid people from saying stupid things, so next time they rag on you.. don't stoop to their level.. don't act all immature like them.. keep your cool and make a joke, give them a compliment (yes find something decent to say), or talk to your friend and obviously ignore them

try: (to your friend) "I hear they are giving free art lessons at the college, certain people should look into that."

or: (to the stupid people) "Wow, that is a really great pic of yourself. Impressive."

and lastly, tell your friend you appreciate her... she sounds like a great friend to have!!!

Answer 9

You are brave to tell a bunch of strangers about that. My advice to you is to talk to a school counselor, and possibly see a counselor outside of school. Good luck, and take care. You are at a rough age, but there is so much to live for, don't give up, and don't let the bullies win.

Answer 10

yes you need to tell you guidance counsler and get some help for yourself or ask a family member to get you some help....please trust me you dont want to cut yourself, i use to do that too and really hurt myself a few times, but looking back now i wish i would of never done any of that stuff because no matter how bad i thought my life was at the time, by experience i gotta say it will get better, i went through alot of bad time but now i am as happy as one person could be. so please dont do anything stupid and get help asap..good luck and remember life will get better eventually it just takes time

Answer 11

Yes, you should talk to someone..not necessarily your guidance counselor but possibly your parents or another trusted adult (do you have an aunt you are close to?)

Most of all - don't let these girls get to you. They are obviously immature and I'm willing to bet that you will grow into a gorgeous woman and laugh at them later.