I'm going out with this guy. His name is "Bob". And my BEST friend, "KC" thinks he's hot and I cant mention his name around her becuase she gets mad. I dont want her to hate me, but I still want to keep going out with "Bob". My other friend told me that "KC" isnt a true friend if she doesnt support you or your boyfriend even if she DOES like him. Is she true? Or am I not the one being a good friend by going out with "Bob"??
2006-12-08 01:29:41 · 13 answers · asked by Aly Marie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Why should bob have to suffer because kc is jealous of you???
2006-12-08 01:33:43 · answer #1 · answered by Olly Octopus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off - wow - take me back to high school!!
I was always that girl who put my girls above my guys because I knew that I was just crushing and nothing was going to come out of it - we weren't gonna get married, so... yeah.
KC is stupid for being mad at you. He is your boyfriend and you shouldn't give a crap what other people think or even consider breaking up with him just because your friend likes him. Perhaps you should break up your friendship .... that is IF you and Bob are serious.
If you aren't serious then you break up with him although that will leave KC open shot at him and they will probably end up dating and your heart gets broken but then they break up and you two reconcile your friendship and move on until the next cute guy comes along.
LOL
2006-12-08 09:39:43 · answer #2 · answered by Phatstar 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you are not doing anything wrong, and your friend isn't too. imagine yourself at her place. you would feel the same. but i guess she will have to get over. just remember that you know nothing about bob, and kc is your friend, so just be careful with her feelings.
2006-12-08 09:37:28 · answer #3 · answered by Misfit 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
True friends don't act like that. Would you behave that way if she was dating someone?
Of course not. She's hatin on you... big time. Females that are insecure and jealous always trip out when another female has a love interest.
Check her with a quickness. Do it kindly.. but firmly. Ask her how she would feel if the shoe were on the other foot?
That's not true friendship... AT ALL!
2006-12-08 09:43:49 · answer #4 · answered by 247 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Continue the relationship with Bob. Your friend will just have to deal with it.
2006-12-08 09:31:50 · answer #5 · answered by Peloubet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend is no friend. Dump her and keep Bob.
Her jealousy and selfishness are greater than her feelings for you. She would rather make you miserable than support you. As you go through life, you will unfortunately meet many people like that and the only way to deal with them is to get rid of them.
2006-12-08 09:45:32 · answer #6 · answered by Karen L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that your friend has to move on. If you are dating him, then he chose you as well. Just keep in mind, if things don't work out between you and him, she may date him and then you will have a similar situation to deal with, with your friend. Men are NOT WORTH losing a good friend over.
2006-12-08 09:38:39 · answer #7 · answered by laurie0802 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"KC" is being immature. Your friend was right; if KC can't get over it, then she isn't a good friend. Hope this helps!
2006-12-08 09:32:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anne C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your 'friend' is not a friend to act out her jealous nature that way. "Bob" is your boyfriend--she needs to respect that and move on.
2006-12-08 09:32:57 · answer #9 · answered by smeezleme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if bob likes you SHE should stay OUT of it
2006-12-08 09:36:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋