I'm having second thoughts about my list of colleges, what should I do? it's hard to change it at this point.

Question

Particularly Wake Forest because 40% of the men are in fraternities and 50% of the women are in sororities, and that makes me think I won't find a lot of Republicans there even though it's in North Carolina and UNC-Chapel Hill was ranked higher on a list, but it's a lot of paperwork so I decided to do WF since it was on the common app.

I'm confident in Notre Dame and the U. of Georgia

Somewhat confident about American U., Villanova U., U. of Mary Washington and Catholic U. of America

Please any advice would help. Do you think this is a good list of schools? and did I make a mistake taking the easier route of applying to Wake Forest, or should I do all the paper work and change it even though I already paid to send my SAT scores there, but not the application fee?

Answer 1

There are so many colleges it can be overwhelming trying to decide on one, but don't panic! I don't know much about all the colleges you applied to, but I'm sure you chose them for specific reasons. Don't doubt yourself! Just wait and see which ones you are accepted to. There's no harm or disgrace in applying to many, widely varying universities.

College is about testing yourself, trying new things, and learning about what really interests you. It's okay to pick a college and decide later you'd be happier somewhere else. It's okay to pick a major and find out you hate it. Take the time to think things through and be completely honest with yourself about how you feel. Don't worry about dissappointing anyone or making mistakes. Make decisions that are right for you.

Answer 2

Its like the saying tears will dry years will fly but my love for you will last a lifetime. When you care for someone they will always be in your heart. Since he moved on quick it hurts even more. I was with my child's dad for 4 years and i was young at the time as well. He threw us out when she was 2 months old and had someone else living there a week later why i was still searching for a home. I realized that he was not worth it i was done letting him have control. I eventually a year later met someone wonder full and now realize how much better things are without him. Being friends with your ex wont bring him back. Its better if you want him back to not let him no you will always be there otherwise he will take his time. You have a whole life ahead of you and one day love will find you don't go searching for it. Right now it seems he doesn't seem to care for your feelings and everyone deserves the best. For him to put you in this kind of pain does not deserve your heart. One day someone will cherish your heart and love you and not want to make you suffer. I hope that You realize your better then a boy and after this be the better women and stand strong.