So....my roomate and I admitted our attraction to each other one night and ended up making out with each other and sleeping in the same bed (DID NOT have sex) a couple times..the last time was 2 weeks ago... since then, things have been increasingly akward, even tho he was the one who said he did not want things to be weird. He goes out of his way to not talk to me sometimes (don't get me wrong, sometimes he CAN be cool), and now he gets really mad when I talk on the phone in front of him, also recently told one of my other roommates that I annoy him. He won't even look me in the eye anymore. I don't know why this is; he seemd to like me a lot before this, and now he's acting REALLY different. Why? ANd how do I approach this to make things better between us?
2006-12-08 01:20:45 · 5 answers · asked by trickyandmysterious 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I would ignore him and go on with your life. Date other people and have fun, don't let him bring you down!
2006-12-09 01:04:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I read what you wrote and it seems obvious why he is being mean to you. he has lost the respect he had for you, when you started sharing the same bed. Now what he thinks is, you are his personal property, and he does not want to share you with anyone else even though he does not like you anymore. If I were you I would tell him when you are alone with him, that if he does not want you around him to flat out tell you, and you will leave him alone and won't bother him anymore. Talking things out is better than being around someone that does not show any respect.
2006-12-08 09:33:33 · answer #2 · answered by a.vasquez7413@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He liked you a lot before and likes you alot now, he's afraid to talk to you or interact with you for fear that you'll see how much he really cares for you,
which in his mind brings up the fear that you won't feel the same way.
take a risk and talk to him , be honest with how you feel about him
and see what happens....what have you got to lose... sounds like it sucks
now! Its hell in the hallway!
2006-12-08 09:38:04 · answer #3 · answered by lookoutjamie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems that you're more interested in him than he is in you.
Let him behave as he is..
and try to keep distance. He has taken you for granted perhaps...
and doesnt have any respect for you anymore for some reasons.
So just go to your own ways...
dont bother abt him !
2006-12-08 11:09:35 · answer #4 · answered by zubi k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is acting like this because he is a c*nt... wake up, move out and stop mooching after a ********
2006-12-08 09:24:02 · answer #5 · answered by wisewoman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋