I am one, who expects that my friends should show me the equal amount of interest, I show in them... Is this wrong?
2006-12-08 01:19:59 · 11 answers · asked by Naveen 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Expectation from anyone is no good. possessive is no good in any relationship. It will end in fight and your friends may stop avoiding you for that kind of behaviour. ofcourse they are no good friends if they avoide you. Since you said that your friends says that is not good. They are trying to make you understand, they care you a lot. They show more affection towards you which you are not able to understand.You have got a good friends.So don;t expect from them. Understand them and be a good friend.
2006-12-08 19:59:02 · answer #1 · answered by Mayandi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what ever interest u show to ur friends is ur personality n u can not expect the same from others being different individuals.so don't be possessive about ur friends its bad try n improve.
2006-12-08 13:01:29 · answer #2 · answered by babbu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is wrong. You cannot expect your friends to be there for you like you are for them all of the time..they are their own individual selves. Maybe you depend on them too much and cut yourself some slack and do things for you instead of expecting them to do it for you.
2006-12-08 09:23:13 · answer #3 · answered by smeezleme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on your friends, maybe it works for them. Personally I can't abide possessive people/men/friends. But that's just me.
2006-12-08 09:22:28 · answer #4 · answered by F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see i had the same problem.i talked with my friend about this and made her promise me that she wud not ignore me until i do something wrong or as long as she accepts me as her best friend.i too promised that i wudn't be possesive of her anymore as she said that i shud trust her.first ask ur friend if he/she really accepts u as a friend.if yes then trust ur friend.if no then accept it as it is and find a new friend.
2006-12-09 04:45:58 · answer #5 · answered by lost... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's certainly not great. i know its easy to say but we shouldn't expect anything. chill out and go with the flow a bit
2006-12-08 09:22:45 · answer #6 · answered by elsie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
POSSESSIVENESS REFLECTS AND GENERATES FROM "GREED". YOU ARE GREEDY BY NATURE BECAUSE YOU HAVE EXPECTATIONS FROM YOUR FRIEND EVEN. FRIENDSHIP IS BASED ON COMPLETE SURRENDER WITHOUT ANY CONSIDEARTION. IT IS A TIE UP OF TWO HEARTS ...RATHER TWO SOULS...WHERE IDENTITIES AMALGMATE IN TO ONE...TWO ARE LOST..ONLY ONE REMAINS...IT IS NOT A WORLDLY PHENOMENON AND "IN TURN" WESTERN THEORY OF SELFISHNESS DOES NOT WORK HERE AT ALL. PLEASE DEFINE FRIENDSHIP AGAIN BUT CORRECTLY IN ITS FULL SENSE.
2006-12-09 00:56:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well,i must say this is the biggest problem even i am having,i thought a lot about this so,all u can do is 'just be yourself'.you will come to know what you have to do, from your experience soon.
2006-12-08 10:31:48 · answer #8 · answered by nikhil s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone is different in their nature-but you want everyone to be just like you?
2006-12-08 09:28:31 · answer #9 · answered by Malik 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are an individual you have a right to your individuality.
2006-12-08 09:27:58 · answer #10 · answered by minootoo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋