Puberty Question?

Question

I'm 13 and still haven't had any signs of puberty. I am tired of being treated like a little kid. Is there anyway i can speed things up? My junk is about the same size as my 7 year old brother. I have a doctors appointment after school today to get a checkup and might talk to him. I'm 4 ft 9 and weigh about 90 lbs.

Answer 1

Hey, don't worry about it. Some kids mature faster than others, if I were you takes thing easy eventually it will grow and you won't even know.

Answer 2

WHY ARE U KIDS TRYING TO GROW UP SO FAST? hun puberty happens at different ages for different kids. You might be a late bloomer. Hun, u can go and talk to your dr. about it, but they are going to tell you what I am telling you know. There is nothing that you can do to to make this speed up. It happens when the good Lord wants it too. For me it started early and I always asked why? For other girls my age it did or it didn't. That's how nature is hun. U just have to wait your turn whenever it happens it will. You should know what to expect and that's all that you can do to get prepared, know what to look for and expect it and then roll with it. Because it's not going to happen all in one night. Its over a period of time. You will grow into a young man soon enough, but if I were u honey I wouldn't wish for it too soon. Enjoy being a boy, stop trying to compete with this fast crowd that's out there and just live. Like a girl, talk to her as a friend, and just skateboard or whatever u do and stay away from negative influences. Like drugs, bullying, and illegal activities. Being a grown up isn't all its cracked up to be because when u get to be my age (30) you will be wanting to be your age or at least 16 again. So grow up but when u need too not because u want to be this person or that person. Just be YOU!

Answer 3

There no way of speeding up puberty. Most people start puberty from the ages 11-13, others start 14-16.

Answer 4

...D***...
Puberty comes at different times for different people. Some physically mature by they turn 11, others don't until just before they turn 14. For your peace of mind, I'm 18, and I haven't blown up until the 10th month following my 13th birthday, and I'm working with 8 inches. Trust me, it will come. (6'6", 189 lbs.)

And you're kinda short for a 13-year-old. Not to be taken the wrong way, but don't expect too much of yourself.

PS: Have you ever heard the saying, "Big things come in small packages?"

Answer 5

There is not anything you can do to speed up the start time of puberty. Some boys are late and some few are very early. Both cause different emotional reactions. Talk to your doctor honestly in detail about how you feel about your body when you see him. Don't be embarrased to talk to him.

Answer 6

There's not a thing you can do to speed up puberty - it'll come when it'll come. As for being treated like a little kid, attitude is everything. If you act respectful and mature, you'll gain the respect you're looking for.

Answer 7

Well your body isn't going to speed up anytime sooner! But in order for your parents to stop treating you like a little kid you should show them instead of telling them and what i mean is act more responsible do things just because you want to and not because someone has to tell you...hang out with your brother more..you know those types of things...I hope this can help you!

Answer 8

some people are just tiny, but you are only 13, and i think that you will see some results very soom. btw, boys mature slower than girls, and you will still be growing stuff when girls stop.i am 12, and i am 5'2 and 129 pounds.i have A cup. i know how you feel, i'm kind of tiny too

ask your father or mother when they started to go through puberty. they might of had late puberty as well.

Answer 9

i have almost the same problem as u, but im only 80 lbs, 4 ft 7
All that i do is try 2 make friends with the tallest people around. Plus, you should work out alot, people realy do judge you alot by how strong you are. (i can lift 140 lbs. with my legs so not many people really try 2 fite me XD

Answer 10

This isnt rare. I know you may think it is, but it isnt!
I know a lot of guys with your condition and I'm turing 14 tomorrow.
It's good you're going to the doctor. You may have a thing called Harmone Imbalance.
Which sweetly means that some of your harmones are weak but you can take medication to even your harmones out.
Maybe talk to your dad about this too?

Hope I helped, hun. Goodluck!

Answer 11

You are perfectly fine. My son is 16 now and was close to your size (weighed a little more) when he was your age. Now he's 5'9" and weighs almost 180 pounds. Be patient, it'll happen. I promise! Talk to your doctor--I bet he'll say the same thing.