what is wrong with me?

Question

whats wrong with me? whenever i sit in the tube or bus i day dream about my guy or something when one of my relative or friend sitting next to me talks about anything i just feel disturb and i dont reply but just listen and wait for them to shutup..what exactly is this..it also happens when i am dressing up and my aunt calls me for something that is not neccessary and i usually end up getting irratated

Answer 1

You're in love - great isn't it?

Answer 2

Nothing is wrong with you. I can't stand being interrupted no matter what I'm doing. I'll be laying on my bed, staring at the TV and my phone will ring and I get annoyed. I know it's just my friend wanting to bore me with meaningless gossip about people I hardly know or care about. I've gone through stages in my life where sometimes I'm more social and easy going. Now I'm going through a stage when I won't even answer the phone anymore. I just don't care to listen to anyone right now unless they're actually having a real problem. I'm tired of hearing about what boy snubbed who at what bar. I'd rather sit on Yahoo!A than listen to that crap for an hour. Don't worry about it. It may just be how you're feeling lately.

Answer 3

I don't think there isn't really anything wrong with you, its just, your boyfriend is something that isn't part of your everyday life. What I mean by this, is that your used to your family members being around, and of course, your used to them nagging or talking to you in the way that they do.

So when your busying yourself with lovely thoughts of your beau, usual everyday life is interrupting.

Of course, when daydreaming, its always weird being interrupted. Sometimes your embarrassed that you've lost a part of consciousness.

Look at whats happening at home though. Is anything wrong? Have you not been getting on lately?

Also, if your daydreaming a lot, its normal to happen in a relationship. It takes up a huge chunk of your brain. So it's okay!

Don't worry too much or you'll drive yourself bonkers. Just take a deep breathe and listen to what your aunt or your relative/friend has to say. Because the beauty of daydreaming is that you can go back to it.

Answer 4

Right now you are very self-absorbed, stuck in your head... it will come across to others as selfish. May be tough to hear, but usually that is the feedback we need.

You have become bored with people because you don't think they have anything new to offer you or cannot do anything for you. You need to find you joy, fun and love in relationships again. Remember a time when you had these things... see what you are missing?

Take a real interest in people to enjoy relating with them. Care about THEM. Pay attention and be there for them, you will see it in their eyes when they know you are really listening, it feels good for them and it will really feel good for you.

Answer 5

Nothing wrong with that, it's just nice to be in your own dream world for a bit. Helps to escape the reality of life. You probably getting irritated when you're interrupted as it brings you back down to planet earth and daydreaming is much nicer.

I'm exactly the same.

Answer 6

You use these times to be alone with your thoughts, mull over whats going on or what may happen.
I do. I'm quite sure we all have our little moments to be alone with our thoughts.
..And woe betide anyone that comes in between them!
No, there is no problem with you at all. We all feel agitated when disturbed from what ever we're doing. It's quite natural.
Trick is, try not to show your annoyance too much.
Enjoy your thoughts.

Answer 7

I used to get liek that all the time too. For me, it was just that I was overscheduling, making myself too busy, and putting too much on my task list, and on my mind. I wanted efficiency out of my conversations more than I wanted to hear what people were saying, and I'd get so annoyed if people would take longer to say things should only take a few seconds. Try to engage yourself in the conversations, and slow down a bit. :)

Answer 8

You are a person with bad manners,if you broke your leg
on tube or bus bet you would talk to some one then ?
If people try to talk to you just think they may be very
lonely or scared in a big city,you could help.
Talk babe.it all ain't about you.

Answer 9

sounds to me like your life is getting alittle boring,same old stuff every day,you want spice it up alittle,talk about things you you want to to your friends rather than just listening and switching off,people like other's opionions,for the daydreaming on public transport,your not alone,fantasies are healthy and if your that worried about talking to strangers then take an ipod or mobile phone,plus the jouneys are always boring so distractions make it go quicker,and as for aunts calling you for little pointless things,thats just stress,wait till you finish doing what you do then see what she wants,from pete

Answer 10

Do you have anxiety or alot of stress? Maybe your brain is dreaming because it needs a break. I notice that when i'm stressed everything seems to get under my skin. Ihave to stand back for a minute and ask myself why I'm getting irritated.

Answer 11

I do the same-I'm sure everybody does. You're lost in a perfectly enjoyable daydream that is making you quite happy-then reality has to push through and ruin it for you-and it's usually really stupid things too!!