for eg. i cannot live without u, u r my lifelong dream, i love u more than anyone else in the world, u r god, u r my sweetheart, i cannot concentrate at work b'coz i keep thinking of u, etc...
b'coz these are things i have told my gf. but she is not reciprocating at all. she is being rude & cold to me often.
but we're still getting married in 20 days.
has she actually stopped loving me or does she in reality love me
but keeping it very cool so that I keep chasing her & loving her & so that i do everything for her & and so that I am under her control?
2006-12-08 00:43:41 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
remember she is still wanting to marry me despite her not showing any love towards me.
2006-12-08 00:44:51 · update #1
maybe she's just freaking out about the wedding. its a good sign that she still wants to marry you. usually when i act that way towards guys they just stop talking to me all together. good luck to you in your marriage. :-)
2006-12-08 00:47:38 · answer #1 · answered by sag.grrrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are flooding her to much with attention. Guys, woman love attention but not that extreme..............
Here is something you can try, really do this because it will work without a doubt................
Starting today......When you talk to her do not tell remind her how much you love her. When your with her act like your not so interested in her. If you go get you a drink don't offer her one. Read a book or get on the computer when your with her, if you live in seperate houses then go to your friends house tonight instead of hers. Examine how she is treating you and treat her like she is treating you.Don't go to extreme. Do you see your reaction to the way she treats you? You go over board with affection to her.
It will work the same way for you. Once she See's that she don't have you wrapped around her little pinky, she might try harder to win your affection.
Don't keep up the bad attitude because you see it gets you affection. That's where a lot of people go wrong in a relationship. They use that to manipulate the other one and eventually it back fires because you can only take so much.
Once you prove your point to her, which will only take a day, then talk to her about your problem.
Keep loving her, just tone your actions down. Good luck........HC
2006-12-08 01:08:20 · answer #2 · answered by horsecrazy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure you still want to marry her? Well, it's just a joke. Why don't you ask her why she's like that. I think you should now learn to do that, i mean to talk to her seriously. Communicate with her. Remember part of a happy marriage is open communication with your partner.So, good luck!
2006-12-08 00:52:23 · answer #3 · answered by blutot_ils 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok. We say we like all that stuff, and we do, in moderation. But, sounds like overkill in your case. It's good to tell her she's pretty and you love her, but not constantly, that just gets on our nerves. We don't like a guy that is TOO into us. We will get bored with you. Just back off, give compliments and express your love (not continuously), but don't smother her.
2006-12-08 02:01:52 · answer #4 · answered by Lotus 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is she being rude to you? Is that a love? Be careful some women are mercenary. Life could be very misleading sometimes if you weren't careful.
2006-12-08 01:49:58 · answer #5 · answered by Arianne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well she doesnt seem like the mooshy type. Maybe she's having second thoughts or something. Getting married is a big step.
2006-12-08 00:46:35 · answer #6 · answered by Nic Jones 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HOLD THE HORSES> Put that wedding on hold....You have to stop pushing her away.......you are overboard!!!.but if you want the same treatment she is not for you......after you marry she will get more distant.trust me!
2006-12-08 00:46:44 · answer #7 · answered by angeleyez1956@verizon.net 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you adore your mom in a nurturing way. She has dealt with you because of the fact which you have been born. you prefer to be there to your mom and now and back proportion hobbies and snicker together with her and characteristic dinner together with her. alongside with your lady pal, you prefer to have intercourse together with her, you prefer to comprehend her on an intimate point. you may proportion the comparable hobbies. a lot of adult men date women who remind them of their mothers because of the fact they choose somebody to guard them.
2016-12-13 05:06:00 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask her if she still loves you
2006-12-08 00:47:17 · answer #9 · answered by gala-day 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she doesn't believe you
2006-12-08 00:46:35 · answer #10 · answered by Atousa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋