i just found out i have two std's, my boyfriend didnt know he had and obviously he didnt cuz he went down on me. Im very upset and I feel he shouldve been more responsible and went to a clinic every six weeks. He havent been in a year! But I still love him, what should I do?
2006-12-08 00:30:13 · 11 answers · asked by sweet 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Take care of your health problems, get tested for everything else ( that you don't have) in six months, and drop this looser. If he doesn't respect himself enough to get tested regularly he can't possibly respect you.
2006-12-08 00:39:57 · answer #1 · answered by DEBBY'S BABY 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
STD's are very serious. there is alot of people walking around with HIV and don't even know it. If he cheats with the wrong person without pertecting himself, both you and him can be taking drugs for the rest of your lives. The decision you make to stay with him is yours, but you need to think about protecting yourself. You can never be 100% sure that a man is faithful. And you can't make him get tested. But as for yourself, you need to protect yourself. Some STD's make you infertile, some you have break outs that you can only treat and never cure. HIV: there's no cure. and you may not even know you have it unless you get tested because it don't start really affecting your body until 10 years after becoming infected.
---think about it.
2006-12-08 01:00:29 · answer #2 · answered by just curious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See a Doctor and use protection when you with him.
As long as you know you've been faithful, you need to say something to him about this. tell him you got them from him and that both of y'all need to go to the clinic together to get him tested. If he cant own up to cheating, if he did cheat, then its not worth being with him. If he had got the std's from a previous partner and never did cheat on you, then you can stay with him. No one on here can tell you what to do and not to do, thats your choice. I hope you can figure this out!
2006-12-08 01:51:40 · answer #3 · answered by Malik 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you know you've been faithful, you need to say something to him about this. tell him you got them from him and that both of y'all need to go to the clinic together to get him tested. If he cant own up to cheating, if he did cheat, then its not worth being with him. If he had got the std's from a previous partner and never did cheat on you, then you can stay with him. No one on here can tell you what to do and not to do, thats your choice. I hope you can figure this out!
2006-12-08 00:44:25 · answer #4 · answered by PfcsBaby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is tough. It also makes it a little more tougher to know that you really trust him as much as you do. He is with you. This is a resposibility he should have kept up with. Not only does it mess with his life, but now with yours. You need to take a moment and think if you really trust him. This is your health and he pretty much did not take enough consideration to think about you.
2006-12-08 00:36:20 · answer #5 · answered by Rachel D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure he didn't know? How is he reacting? It would make me think he was sleeping around. I would find someone else. Sorry
2006-12-08 00:43:53 · answer #6 · answered by reeree 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See a Doctor and use protection when your with him.
2006-12-08 00:40:35 · answer #7 · answered by Jim C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's obvious that he hasn't put you first.....protected you in any way. Why would you want to stay with him?
2006-12-08 00:46:41 · answer #8 · answered by Lori 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
same as above
2006-12-08 00:34:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he should be good and ripe by now, go down on him. (silly)
2006-12-08 00:45:37 · answer #10 · answered by DASH 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋