Im a girl and recently ended up sleeping with one of my female friends, although she says she doesnt want a relationship shes pretty happy about people knowing about us and doesnt want to be with anyone else shes also talked about us moving in together. She also says shes in love with me and loves me as much as i love her but do i risk her turning round and deciding shes not bi after all and it was just a phase or do i leave things as they are?
2006-12-08 00:09:25 · 8 answers · asked by supernaturallysexy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Dont move in with her. Dont let things move too fast....
She could be doing it for attention.
Or she could really like you but want to be with other ppl... either way, sounds like you stand a big chance of getting hurt here.
To make things better, live seperately, keep the relationship going if both want to, and just wait and see what happens.. live your life right now.. and if its meant to be, it will happen, if not, then accept that that was your fate and start over. Love usually comes to you, not the other way around.
2006-12-08 00:12:48 · answer #1 · answered by yo mama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This woman sounds very confused. She doesnt seem to know what she wants. Whatever you do, dont move in with her until you are sure that she is prepared to commit. Having said that, nobody can predict the future; and no-one knows if a relationship is going to last.
All I can suggest is, that if you do decide to move in with her and give it a try; please make sure that your name is on the tenancy, so that you are, at least, not homeless.
Be patient with her, and give her time, she may well work it out.
I wish you all the best. :o) x
2006-12-08 08:16:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt move in with her...sounds like she likes what you had but is a little confused about herself. I would just leave things the way they are, see what happens as time goes by.
2006-12-08 08:15:20 · answer #3 · answered by BiancaVee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a woman who would dearly love to be with a girl sexually but need men for heart to heart companionship.
The important thing to understand is what she really wants from your relationship. If it is not what you want then keep your distance until you want the same thing.
That is my advice for what it is worth :)
2006-12-08 08:16:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont move in with her
just see how things go
good luck
2006-12-08 08:22:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go on. future will decide.
2006-12-08 08:12:16 · answer #6 · answered by indike111 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you got a double ender?
2006-12-08 08:14:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
leave it the way it is and have fun.......
2006-12-08 08:12:42 · answer #8 · answered by Judy the Wench 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋