3 months ago I told my girlfriend I wanted some time apart because things were moving fast, and we were getting serious. She was very upset, but I insisted and I didnt see her for a month. When I realized how much I loved her I asked her to take me back. At first she was still angry at me, but she finaly took me back.We were happy for the past two months, but last week I asked if she had dated anyone while we were apart - I did not.I found out she not only did date but she even slept with someone she knows from her gym and someone from her work (at different times), she she had regular sex with both, until they both broke it off her. she was hurt by them using and dumping her as well as me rejecting her. Im jealous, but I know i hurt her too. we have discussed the details, though it is hard. this way i let her know it is ok to talk about how she was hurt,but also about how she enjoyed the sex, which she tells me she did - and she has told me new things i can try!Is bing open smart?
2006-12-08 00:02:48 · 12 answers · asked by downtokissit 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It is ok for your gf to talk about how she'd been hurt and dumped, etc., but i think it's weird how she describes the detail about her sex with the other two men. Does she really have to tell you that????Just in case, you will have sex with her, are you sure she's not imagining either of the two men?...It is an ugly thinking BUT if you really love her, and though if she had told you that you didn't fell out of love with her even a second, i think you should forget about the past, it is time for a new beginning. You have wasted so much time when you left her and there's a lot of catching up to do, just tell her not to talk about new things she learned in bed..I hope it's a happy ending!
2006-12-08 00:14:51 · answer #1 · answered by nozmiat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By taking a break and not having contact for a month she had every right to do what she did if that is what she wanted to do, which from the sounds of it it was.
You can't be mad at her for it...you were the one that wanted the "break"
Being open is good in a relationship but some things are better left unsaid.
2006-12-08 02:17:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, she was hurt and she needed an otulet for that, but I do not agree with her being with two guys at the same time. Sounds like she was using them. Anyways though, you guys did break up so whatever she did shouldn't really matter to you now, you should be more worried about your future together. Good Luck.
2006-12-08 00:10:39 · answer #3 · answered by nothing 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not be asking her what she did when the two of you were apart. You chose to break it off, and hurt her feelings and she was probably trying to get over you. A very poor way to do it, however, it was obviously her choice. You should not concern yourself with the details, that is just asking for trouble. God bless****
2006-12-08 00:06:54 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You asked for it. You broke up together with her and now you do not basically like the outcomes. Do you think of she could have sat and waited for you. Why are you jealous? so which you ask your self whether honesty is terrific? Your conversing approximately her, yet do you notice what proportion circumstances I used the understanding YOU. Be responsible on your guy or woman strikes. existence is however, sure, face the reality.
2016-10-17 23:39:16 · answer #5 · answered by lander 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ask questions that you are not ready to hear the answer to.
Personally, I would be concerned that within the space of a month she slept with two men.
2006-12-08 00:15:50 · answer #6 · answered by Jennifer D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is stupid for you both.....if you were not involved....you shouldn't be talking about what happened.....it can only lead to bad feelings between you two....just enjoy each other and the time you have together....make lots of good memories to talk about in the future.
2006-12-08 00:05:37 · answer #7 · answered by yakimaniacs 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is natural for women to stray. They need to service their needs, wants and desires over yours. So if sex was a need that she had from them. Of course she did the right thing to take it.
Good on her!
2006-12-08 00:05:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what she did while you two were apart is none of your buisness. you opened a can of worms by asking. you need to stop dwelling on her life chioces. you did not want to be there and you werent, if you are hurting it is because you are inflicting it upon yourself.
2006-12-08 00:07:33 · answer #9 · answered by Val 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Test for STDs she seemed to enjoy her freedom quite a bit.
I would be very concerned if I were you.
2006-12-08 04:44:13 · answer #10 · answered by onlineseeker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋