We had love marrige and living together for 3 years only. He is not active in sex. I think he is coming for sex for the sake of my interest only . He dosent like to kiss my mouth even. When i kiss him he keeps his tooth tightly. I like to suck his penis but he never give me more than one minite even. He never come by him self and lick my one , so i bring it to him and say to lick. He finish it quickly and sleep away from me. We have one child also, but i couldnt understand even. So many time i have explained my problem but until now no change. Some time he says u need only sex ,sex ,sex... But i need love . I couldnt understand him.
2006-12-07 23:47:08 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Like someone else has said, Is He Gay! Men in general need to at least know, that their woman wants them. They also have the need to procreate, so sex is usually on their mind several times a day.
I would ask him to attend counciling with you.
And what would happen if you played it cool for a few days or a week? Would He come to you for closeness? Did something happen to Him in His Past? What was his childhood like? Religion?
Best of Luck
God Bless!!!
2006-12-07 23:59:17 · answer #1 · answered by DJ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He has low sex drive, being with a woman who has had a child has put him off sex or he is gay. If it's the first he needs to see his doctor for a check-up. If it's the second he needs to se a doctor and be referred to a mental health professional and if it's the third you need to find out now so that you can leave him and find a man.
Luck
2006-12-08 00:34:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Poor John, He/She has a multi person disorder, He/She just cannot live in the same body as She/He. He/She and She/He are apparently confused as to where the child came from. I wonder if their problem has been explained to a Psychiatrist, if not, I think He/She should take She/He and the child to the nearest mental health facility.
2006-12-08 02:42:56 · answer #3 · answered by Mark S 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You need to make up your mind. I've just checked the questions you're asking. One is about how to manage a wife. The second how to manage a husband where you claim you don't get enough. Then there's another question where apparently he is asking you 2-3 times a day and now this question about dating a boy!! Are you for real or just like asking these type of questions to see the responses you receive?
THE QUESTION IS FAKE. A PREVIOUS QUESTION THIS PERSON ASKED WAS THAT HER HUSBAND KEPT ASKING HER FOR SEX AND IN THIS CURRENT QUESTION, SHE IS APPARENTLY NOT GETTING ENOUGH. IN ONE SHE'S THE WIFE AND IN THE OTHER SHE'S THE HUSBAND!!
2006-12-07 23:58:37 · answer #4 · answered by JACQUI S 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I feel for you sweet heart. You deserve much more!
Is he a little over weight? Maybe his sex drive is not as potent as yours. If you work on helping him to 'get fit' the sex will improve naturally.
I must confess. I have a thing for latino women. I would adore it if I could lick you and I would love to do it for hours. :)
2006-12-07 23:52:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
This is not a normal man. I love to have sex.
2006-12-08 04:46:13 · answer #6 · answered by onlineseeker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u need to both go to marriage guidance counselling, so these issues can be properly addressed. look up 'Relate' in your telephone book. there's obviously something wrong in your relationship, and the longer it's left, the worse it will get.
2006-12-07 23:55:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think maybe you bring him to a counsellor and sort things out. Maybe he had enounter certain unpresent incident before this marriage.
2006-12-07 23:50:24 · answer #8 · answered by Cutebunny 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe oral sex disgusts him...have you considered going to sexologist? it is unfair to say that you want only sex...physical closeness is also important.. maybe he has a problem expressing feelings in some ways thus he feels blocked...?
2006-12-07 23:52:20 · answer #9 · answered by May 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
oh my he's crazy, your offering him sex and he's turning you down? he needs to see a doctor for his low libido, you keep going as you are and maybe he will come round and give you the love and affection you desire
2006-12-07 23:50:16 · answer #10 · answered by louise 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋