I've been with my boyfriend 8 years, we are engaged and live together. The problem is this other guy that i've known since i was 9 or 10 (i'm 26 now), everytime i see him i get butterflies and goosepimply! We do have a little history from before my boyfriend and i dont know if im in love with the other guy or if its just lust?
HELP!
2006-12-07 23:17:52 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you need to know if you are in love with your boyfriend the one you are engaged.In my opinion if you are in love with him,you wouldn't care for anyone else.Friends childhood friends especially have a great rapport but doesnt exactly mean you are in love with him.You have the jitters because you are seeing him after a long time and are excited to meet him get to know him.etc.Not love in my opinion!
2006-12-07 23:21:16 · answer #1 · answered by plv228 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ur suddenly getting these feelings when u see him i would say its just lust really. Give it time and the feelings should pass but i would say its lust and u know in your heart who you truely love.
2006-12-08 10:37:42 · answer #2 · answered by Chappers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It probably is just lust but you shouldn't be having them kind of feelings if you only love your boyfriend.Think about things and figure out what you want.
2006-12-08 07:25:21 · answer #3 · answered by Nikki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
id been with my hubby 20yrs ihad an affair with a very close male friend i thought it was love, but then another man shew interest and he,s the last person i thought id be interested in, it was lust with the first but this ones love i gave it all up 4 him i wouldnt the first one although we were already v close, if your thinking of other men everything cant be alright with your man can it? never thought id have an affair!
2006-12-08 07:25:07 · answer #4 · answered by apple 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like lust to me luv
2006-12-08 07:21:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say lust - it should pass dont risk the person you love for someone you lust. Lust is a natural thing and i believe everyone experiences it the ones who are in love though are the ones that dont stray!
Good Luck
2006-12-08 07:25:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
forget about him!!!! because if your lusting after someone else then it'll ruin your relationship with your boyfriend
2006-12-08 07:22:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
LUST of-course
2006-12-08 07:20:15 · answer #8 · answered by your noon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask them both for a roasting
2006-12-08 07:20:29 · answer #9 · answered by england til i die 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends how much you want him. Only you can decide.
2006-12-08 07:37:30 · answer #10 · answered by Saudi Geoff 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fu*k him, and get it over with!
Or if not, come and get me!
2006-12-08 07:20:00 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋