Hey im 14, i use to have a bunch of good friends and all. but now they hate me and wanna bash me and all that. now i dont really like going around my town cause if i bump into them. (theres about 12 of dem) they prob do something to me. Now im getting really f**kin annoyed cause there rekin my life. 1. like i said i dnt like goin round my town in fear of running into them. 2. everytime i get a gf they somehow find her and tell her all this bullshit about me so the girl doesn't like me. and 3 they're getting other ppl againts me.
I dont know wat 2 do. these guys arn't like gangsters that will stab me or anyfin but they would confront me and try get a fight going on. Everytime i wanna hang out wif my new friends, i hav 2 go f**ken suburbs away.
anyone know how to deal with this?? (without getting cops involved or anythin)
2006-12-07 23:10:45 · 8 answers · asked by startagain_901 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
try for some other friends
2006-12-07 23:30:06 · answer #1 · answered by frandy4u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't say what caused this rift in your friendship. Did you actually do anything to justify their dislike of you, at least in their minds, or are they just jealous because you have new friends and have drifted away from them.
either way it's not fair that they should ruin your life like this. But if you haven't done anything wrong then it will be easier for you to take the moral high ground in a confrontation. They sound like bullies, most bullies are cowards. Avoid situations where you could be hopeless outnumbered with no possibility of help but other than that don't shy away from a confrontation. Don't let them see you are affected by your behaviour. The more often it happens and you just walk away or ignore them the less pleasure they will get from it.
If they do draw you into conversation stay calm. Tell them you haven't done them any harm, you having other friends won't hurt them and they really have no need to be angry.
as for girls, any girl who is swayed by lies probably isn't worth your time anyway. If she isn't prepared to make up her own mind about you, forget her, move on.
2006-12-08 07:26:27 · answer #2 · answered by gerrifriend 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you could talk to them about it..But if they are how you make them sound, I don't know how much good that'll do. Just find new friends. Ignore your old ones..As far as them telling your girlfriends stuff, if you're not hanging out with these people they won't have anything to talk about you with. A girl won't believe everything someone says about you when you don't have any contact with them in the first place. Good luck with everything.
2006-12-08 07:16:51 · answer #3 · answered by Nikki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so your 14 and these ferals are about the same age, i majorly doubt thier gonna risk 14 years in jail for a stabbing. have no fear show no fear walk tall and proud, stand up to anyone even if you get a slap down get right back and look em in the eye you the stronger man. confidence makes the real man.
like i say you might get a slap down but it just makes you stronger
2006-12-08 07:19:45 · answer #4 · answered by BoChOi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hire Jackie Chan and Jet Li to protect you from the people you screwed over (why else would they suddenly hate you?) or take what you've got coming.
P.S.: Learn to speak and write and type in english, and stop using that lazy-*** ebonics crap!
2006-12-08 07:15:59 · answer #5 · answered by Feeling new @ 42 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what did you do ,people usally have a good reason for this sort of behaviour,i think you are going to confront these people and sort out your problem you cant keep running
2006-12-08 07:17:21 · answer #6 · answered by matty60 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could move out w/o anybody knowing...then they wont find people to go against you. plus, you could find more friends!
2006-12-08 07:24:10 · answer #7 · answered by potter_kid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move to another place...those bastards
2006-12-08 07:12:33 · answer #8 · answered by piercedgal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋