will be there. Do we let her go?
2006-12-07 22:31:14 · 15 answers · asked by brufus1953 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Well, yes.
You think because her friend is gay that means she'll automatically come onto her? No. That's like assuming that heterosexual males find all women attractive.
Besides, she's 15. Loosen the leash.
2006-12-07 22:35:40 · answer #1 · answered by Lilium 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well if i was you first i would first talk to the friends parents. See what the plans are, and if there is anything you should discuss. Secondly just because her friend is gay doesnt mean they have any evil plans or wish to harm your daughter. If the friend seems like a good person and is trust worthy despite there sexual orientation then let her go.
Now if this is a truely unsupervised overnight visit and the friends parents wont be there then i would ask if you trust your daughter. If you really trust her to do whats right, safe, and responsible then let her go anyway. If not then DONT!
Sam
2006-12-08 21:29:56 · answer #2 · answered by Sam L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a parent I can understand your concerns but when you let your child spend the night at ANYONES house there should always be some sort of worries.
All my friends who have children, of various ages, put on a real shindig when other kids come over for the day or a grand sleep over.
Great food and games, not to mention the latest dvd's for kids and everyone has a great time and are watched over constantly to be sure all is safe for them. Oh! by the way, these parents are gay. They wanted children and having gotten them have pulled out all the stops to be sure they are raised right.
And just in case you haven't figured it out by now-I happen to be a gay parent. My son of 8 has friends over all the time and each one has a great time. If one of these kids does cross over the line of set rules, his or her parent is called and the child goes home.
The best thing for you to do is make sure you give your phone number and a list of any allergies or other conditions your child may have. Please meet the Pa (I assume that is the father) and not to fret-they are real people too.
Thanks for being a caring parent.
2006-12-08 07:08:59 · answer #3 · answered by dragon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At age 15, I'm sure your daughter is capable of fending off any unwanted sexual advances IF they were to occur. But simply presuming that her friend is going to try to come on to her is inappropriate. If your daughter is going to engage in any sexual activity with someone, she's going to do it whether she sleeps over at her friend's house or not. If your daughter has been raised to respect sex and sexuality, you should be able to trust her anyway. Oh and by the way, never assume that the sexual orientation of her friends has anything to do with anything - heterosexual kids fool around with each other all the time, so just because her friend is homosexual doesn't mean the odds are higher that they would fool around. Either way, if you are homophobic, that is your problem; don't inflict it on your child. She's three years away from adulthood and needs to be able to start making these kinds of moral decisions on her own.
-Rev. Jim Cunningham
King James Bible Ministry
2006-12-08 07:32:47 · answer #4 · answered by hmghosthost 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well well well
Is the friend gay male or gay female.....?
If gay male so where is the problem let her go and enjoy gay boys are sweet and funny and full of love, they will have very nice quality life. and she will come back home safe and full.
If she is a gay female, i would worry a bet bcz dono what will happen a gay female to a female like a str8 guy to her. so i would consider before i accept....
but hey may be your daughter is gay too...... you should know
2006-12-08 07:40:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is happy and feels comfortable with going to stay with her friend then let her go. If you do try and stop her it will only lead to her resenting you and maybe being less truthful with you in future about where she is going and who with.
2006-12-08 06:46:18 · answer #6 · answered by chris_morganuk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you say it's "unsupervised" and then you say her friend's parents will be there.
Which is it?
Do you consider her friends parents to be unfit to supervise or something?
2006-12-08 07:28:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
gay people are better then straight people when it comes to most things in life. i wouldnt worry...
2006-12-08 06:34:36 · answer #8 · answered by Euro 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ok so whats the problem.If she experiments so it happened.
2006-12-08 09:25:29 · answer #9 · answered by blakree 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
might aswell, ur daughter might not b gay.
2006-12-08 06:52:43 · answer #10 · answered by blakorkid 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋