2006-12-07 22:11:38 · 7 answers · asked by Moi 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
take his computer out in the yard and fill it with bullets.
2006-12-07 22:16:49 · answer #1 · answered by pandora078 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This might be a good opportunity to examine your own behavior. Have you been bothering him about this? Do you "nag" often? Does he not feel relaxed around you because you're too picky, too bossy, or too overbearing? Have you not been holding up your end of the bargain in bed?
If all of those are answered with "no," then he's NOT "cheating." If one or two were "yes," then he's talking to other women because he's getting tired of you. If more than two were "yes," then he's actively searching for someone else.
All is not lost, however. Try to remind him why he's with you in the first place. All any man REALLY wants is a partner who is PLEASANT to be around. Do that and he'll stick around for life.
2006-12-08 06:23:38 · answer #2 · answered by Steve 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave or kick your partner out...it is called C-H-E-A-T-I-N-G and indicates that
1. they disrespect your request that they are emotionally exclusive.
2. they do not consider themselves to be in an emotionally exclusive relationship with you.
3. they do not understand that a relationship that is important and fulfilling to any healthy person needs physical and emotional exclusivity.
4. they understand this and find that their emotional needs are not being filled in the relationship so they are looking elsewhere.
5. they are interested in fulfilling their own need not yours.
8. they don't understand their are consequences.
9. they don't think you have enough self-respect to impose consequences.
10. they don't care.
so, in otherwords, take stock of who you are and what you want in a relationship, and decide what consequences will fulfill getting a relationship in which you will find your goals fulfilled. SOmetimes you have to gather your self-respect and understand clearly the message you are being given. In this case it is about respect and you need to respect yourself before you can teach others how to respect you and a relationship with you.
2006-12-08 06:25:08 · answer #3 · answered by northstar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey whats good for the goose is good for the gander like, tic for tac: I'd hit every chat room I felt like, search personals, just more people to add to my messenger and write emails right back to those I neglected for him. Hey, DONT FIGHT AND CRY ABOUT IT, DO UNTO OTHERS WHAT THEY DO UNTO YOU.
2006-12-08 06:26:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look. Just watch him. He might just be chating but then again he might be haveing an affiear. Just watch him (pretend you are doing some work or something) and watch him. Invite some of your frineds rounD (ladie frineds not male). Or just use have it off with him what ever. It will work if you consent to him.
2006-12-08 06:18:07 · answer #5 · answered by Time is nigh 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Honey, I don't see your problem. Grab him by the b*alls, gently- not too hard- and take him to bed and tell him that he gets *it all* at home from now on. Ask him does he agee- he will- and you have tamed your boy.
but you have to give him--.... You should have him eating out of your hand by now.
2006-12-08 06:14:54 · answer #6 · answered by Put_ya_mitts_up 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he hasnt finished with playing the field. You are not IT.
2006-12-08 07:43:13 · answer #7 · answered by Jomtien C 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋