while a go for the inter course with my partner i lose the strength so early, it is dificult for me to spend more time having inter coourse with my lady as my penis melts, even she is not satisfied with the time which i slide in her body, any good suggestions to slove the problem plz
2006-12-07 22:07:18 · 4 answers · asked by williamjaved 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
Try tantric sex- lots of info on internet. (Sting the singer does it and spends all day with his girl). It basically means that you stop the discharge but have the orgasm.
2006-12-07 22:15:20 · answer #1 · answered by roly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends a lot on your age William. I'm just 62 now but from from about 59-61 I had the same problem. Very frustrating for me and her. So I went to the doctor and he did some tests which came back normal. So I had to conclude on my own that it was because I was with someone I wasn't in love with, or that I just didn't see the relationship going anywhere.
NOw I'm married and it just ain't a problem. I suggest:
1. See a doctor - you'll get a blood test for testosterone level
2. Get your diet back to healthy
3. Exercise
4. Get plenty of rest and sleep
Good Luck
2006-12-09 00:32:48 · answer #2 · answered by snvffy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are many products on the market to help with this problem. Many websites and sex shops sell gels and creams with a mild numbing agent that will slightly decrease sensitivity and allow you to last longer.
2006-12-07 22:14:06 · answer #3 · answered by DragoBloodlust 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you say she is not satisfied...she might be not very compassionate and caring and letting you enjoy whatever you can do....so you get anxious and then melt....she might be too caught up with her own pleasure....the woman should let the man feel welcome and happy and not under pressure to perform....the fact you are worried about it shows that you really want to please her, so you would get better in time
but also, relax your stomach when doing it....a tense stomach makes you shoot your wad faster.
ALSO!!!>>tell her that you might not last long the first time but cuddle for 20 minutes then go at it again.......u won't be as horny so you'll last longer :D
cheers!
2006-12-09 00:38:12 · answer #4 · answered by Sizzle Pizzle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋