but was VERY VERY sweet asked you out and gave you CAndy and flowers would you give him a chance, or just be his friend?
2006-12-07 21:27:27 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
you should go out with him and let him know that you would like to get to know him before you make any important relationship decisions. Make sure he is clear on that point so he doesn't end up hurt if you never do find him attractive. But give him a chance because sometimes when you get to know someone they become attractive to you because you start to see more of their personality come out of them. I know many say if you are not attracted to him, then there is no hope, but you may just end up being attracted to him in the end. There are many guys that you can be attracted to right away that are the dumbest, nastiest, egotistical jerks you'll ever want to meet. this guy sounds like he really wants to impress you, so unless you really don't think it could ever go anywhere, give the poor guy a shot
2006-12-07 22:21:31 · answer #1 · answered by Michele A 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being VERY VERY sweet, asking you out,giving you candies and flowers..
isnt that making him attractive and charming.
return the courtesy one should.
2006-12-08 05:36:00 · answer #2 · answered by Don 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats entirely up to you!
Do you think there might be something in it?
Do you think you COULD find him attractive?
They say, beauty is in the eyes of the beholder.
If you think that you would just PREFER to be friends with him, then thats what you should do.
Whatever you do, DONT lead him on IF there is ABSOULTELY NO HOPE!!!!!!
Its not fair to him and will cause you extracation problems after the Date. If you are unsure though , what have you got to lose :)
Good luck!!!
2006-12-08 05:33:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES. I would give him a chance...looks are not that important sometimes. What matters more is the the way he treats a girl. Most very good-looking guys are jerks.
2006-12-08 05:30:40 · answer #4 · answered by Gabriela I 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Friends,.. probably at best,..
and,. be honest and open that thats what it is,... if not,. your playing games,. .and thats shitty
Physical attraction is extremely important (no, not everything) but if your not attracted to him,.. its doubtful at best to ever be more than friends
besides,.. if you become friends,.. you may get to know him and see something you didn't see before... alhtough like i said,.. be careful its not taken the wrong way,.. that can only hurt both of you in the end
2006-12-08 05:36:48 · answer #5 · answered by Khepri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say you just want to be friends and then use him like a disposable lighter. That way, he will understand next time that you can't have a platonic relationship with someone you want to bang. Its for the better.
2006-12-08 12:26:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK well I'm the type that does not really care about the persons looks all that matters is their personality
2006-12-08 08:13:22 · answer #7 · answered by BooBoo 09 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even if he didnt bring candy ( makes me fat ) and flowers ( makes me sneeze )...yes I would. I love a personality that is strong enough to impress me on its own merits rather than things to impress me. The right person will want u for u...not wat u can bring them..... :)
2006-12-08 05:32:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i'd give him a chance. he's character could be attractive
2006-12-08 05:59:47 · answer #9 · answered by ronkeslim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's better to be upfront with him instead of trying to force yourself to be attracted to him if your not. you will only hurt his feelings more if you wait nad allow him to form a bigger attachment to you.
2006-12-08 05:54:04 · answer #10 · answered by pandora078 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋