2006-12-07 21:26:58 · 4 answers · asked by kelvin j 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
firstly neither of you are to blame and I'm sorry for both your losses. It could be a range of anything. Sometimes women cant carry long enough and this results in the loss of a child, sometimes the child might have a deformality and wouldn't survive anyway. The best advice i can give is to go and have some check ups, both of you and maybe things can be resolved from there. It could be nothing but if there is something else causing it, it would be better to find so you can deal with it and hopefully go on to have a lovely family. Keep positive, sometimes going through this can be very hard on a relationship so you just have to remember it is very stressful for both of you at this time. I hope you are blessed with a child soon.
2006-12-07 21:34:59 · answer #1 · answered by jinglebells 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Miscarriage happens more often than people think. It can be emotionally devastating for both partners. I'm sorry for your loss. Unfortunately no one here can tell you the reason, even if they are doctors they can't examine your wife through the Internet.
I strongly suggest you discuss this with your wife's ob/gyn. If you aren't happy with the answers or your wife's doctors I encourage you to see a perinatologist before trying again.
These doctors specialize in high risk pregnancy including but not limited to those who have had several miscarriages. They also handle multiple births, women with RH factor, women with heart disease, cervical incompetence, hormone inefficiencies. As well as able to operate on the fetus during the pregnancy if the need arises. They are very pro active in caring for mother and baby. And have higher positive outcomes in high risk pregnancies than ob/gyn's.
You can find more information on the field of perinatlogy and perinatology referral at www.perinatology.com
I wish you and your wife all the best.
2006-12-07 21:44:51 · answer #2 · answered by Wicked Good 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It could have been many things. Sometimes a fetus is abnormal in some way; sometimes the woman's body is not healthy enough to carry a pregnancy to term, or has a hormonal imbalance that means she is unable to sustain a preganancy. I urge you to seek help from a gynecologist that specializes in fertility and difficult pregnancies; he/she can help you in determining what, if anything, you can do. Good luck.
2006-12-07 21:32:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Suprisingly 20% of all pregnancies end in miscarriage.
Try to make your wife as comfortable as possible when she concieves and make sure she isn't doing any heavy lifting, or anything that can hurt the baby.
Best of luck.
2006-12-07 22:58:47 · answer #4 · answered by evil_nykki 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋