help !
husband feels bad .....but i dont feel like doing it ...lazy or sometimes feel bored...veyr very rarely have a little spark ..and durning those times its not possible !
2006-12-07 21:22:34 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
Does codliver oil +vitamin E tablets help in any way ..
2006-12-07 21:31:11 · update #1
I agree with captain... Talk to hubby.
Maybe something is causing this...Some medications cause lack of stimulation. Stress, depression,past abusive situations, afraid of becoming pregnant... the list goes on.
This may be embarrassing...when you're "with" hubby, could you tell him what feels good and where. ? ? ?
Sex isn't always what people make of it. Sometimes hugging/cuddling, snuggling etc... is more enjoyable. If you're like me, I would rather snuggle up and talk! ( But I have 4 kids! I am not ready to have more ...but that's another story)
Some men want sex too much; like every night, and some women find that they loose interest in sex because its too often, or the same every time. ( try differernt positions? )
Some men actually don't know how to advance their partner with a comfortable "hint" of wanting to ML.So in turn, the woman just doesnt feel like it.
I do understand where you are coming from, Ive been in your shoes. Hopefully this helps...But I do know that talking to your hubby will help him to fully understand. :o)
2006-12-07 21:48:26 · answer #1 · answered by Wendy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems to me that if happens too often your husband will find someone who enjoys going further. Get help with your problem soon.
2006-12-08 05:31:36 · answer #2 · answered by JOHN M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously, talk about it. It probably won't be the nicest conversation you have, but if you don't do it, it will only get worse
2006-12-08 05:25:06 · answer #3 · answered by captainspinmore 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋