I met this girl 1 month ago. I thought she was nice so i gave her my phone number (home and mobile).
She calls me often to my mobile phone only to say "CALL ME BACK!!!" then she cut the phone. and not only that, she also starts to annoy me with her never ending phone calls to my home phone number, and one of her hobbies is "buzz-ing" me like 50 times a day in yahoo msg.
Everytimes she calls, she only talks about her self, and always asks me to find a bf for her or about my husband. and she always acts as if she is a teacher and I am the student.
I am sick of her, but I dont have a heart to tell her that because I know that she is lonely and her life is not easy. what should i do?
2006-12-07 21:15:41 · 14 answers · asked by sara 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I tried to ask her to a cafe so many2 times but she always said "why dont we just eat in your house?".. already inviting her self :( *sigh*
2006-12-07 21:31:10 · update #1
give her a link to this question so that she can know what everyone thinks about her action ;)
You won't even have to tell her directly, she'll eventually realize it by herselves and she'll apologize... or leave you alone for good.
2006-12-07 21:34:03 · answer #1 · answered by Raist 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just drag her out to a really nice cafe and talk things out with her with some nice hot coffee. Just tell her that she is very special and unique friend and you will be there for her whenever she needs help. Tell her that you don't mean any offence, but her action are bothering you and you feel very uncomfortable. Ask her nicely whether she could give you more privacy by ending those weird calls and buzz-ing. Meet with her every weekends to go shopping together and you two can have girls talk as long as you like. Good luck!
2006-12-07 21:28:46 · answer #2 · answered by Daffodil 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you dont want to hurt her feelings, but this needs to stop! Tell her that she is bugging you... to quit calling so many times a day or whatever... Sometimes you have to be harsh to get them to stop. But you might feel a little guilty...DON'T!
I try to be nice about something but if they continue, watch out I will get harsh.
2006-12-07 21:21:54 · answer #3 · answered by Nikki 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No,she is NOT lonely as long as she can keep using You as a sounding board to keep talking about her favorite subject..HER..Keep up the good work.You're so kind to take care of her.
2006-12-07 21:48:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Truth is hard to tell....
but if u dont tell it, then, u might have to suffer your entire life...
so plzzzzzzzz go ahead and terll the truth...
tell her not to annoy u....
tell it in a softer way if she is delicate
2006-12-07 21:53:28 · answer #5 · answered by richard k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
message her, to stop calling you and than change your phone NR( to anonymous.) Tell the phone company you don't want that other people can see your phone NR when they call you then she will stop calling you .
2006-12-07 21:26:09 · answer #6 · answered by Baby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore her
dont answer her calls
if u do say ur busy and will call wen u hav the time
2006-12-07 21:18:58 · answer #7 · answered by El-rene 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just avoid her, and tell her indirectly dat u r sick of her, obviously she wont stop it on her , u hav to do sumthing abt it,how long it wud go, u hav tto release this tension
2006-12-07 21:23:52 · answer #8 · answered by dia a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
better guide her to fell in love with someone else.
tell her the way how to approach to catch a boy
2006-12-07 21:26:16 · answer #9 · answered by RAM R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that girl is retarded...stay away from her..even if she`s lonely she must have her manners.u don`t have to get stressed just for her.
2006-12-07 21:32:57 · answer #10 · answered by lara 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋