she is in a diffrent country, and i have only talked with her and seen her once thats it.
2006-12-07 20:51:45 · 23 answers · asked by kill_time 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
DONT, Although it might be hard for your parents, don't marry a girl you don't like. I mean, dude, c'mon.
2006-12-07 20:53:06 · answer #1 · answered by Soundguy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your parents want you to marry her. No way!!! You can't marry somebody you don't know - and that goes both ways.
By the sound of it you have two options:
1)
Tell your parents "no" and run
2)
(More peaceful alternative), pay the girls air fairs to come to where you are or fly over there -and get to know her. If you still don't like her explain to your parents that she isn't right for you and fly the girl back home (paying the air fairs). She'll probably not mind going home because she would have had a great time in another country and had 2 free flights.
Seriously though, DO NOT MARRY HER BEFORE YOU KNOW HER. THIS RARELY WORKS!!!
If the girl wants to marry you and has only met you once, do one of the 2 above options and make your own decision. DO NOT LET YOUR PARENTS DICTATE THE REST OF YOUR LIFE!!! Marriage is a big thing!
Please don't blame me if the first option (or second for that matter) doesn't work if you try them.
Hope I could help!
2006-12-08 05:05:45 · answer #2 · answered by bezzy_mack 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love these half questions.....to answer this we would need more info my friend.
Obviously if you dont like the girl you shouldn't marry her for her sake as well as yours. The relationship would be stale and doomed from the outset.
Do you feel ready to marry anyway? Are you in a stable enough situation to marry anyone? There's no rush, dont do it for the sake of "being married" its not a cattle market y'know. Marry one ditch one get another...not worth it, your life would be in constant upheaval.
Just tell your parents how you feel, they should respect you for your honesty and integrity. Tell them you would appreciate their trust in you to choose your own partner when the time is right. Good luck!
2006-12-09 06:59:17 · answer #3 · answered by ~☆ Petit ♥ Chou ☆~ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you kidding me? I the USA??? This is 2006 almost 2007. I suggest you get a rope and tie your parents up and DRAG them into THIS century man! That is radical they can even think that way. There is a reason they call it "old country"...that's is crazy. What? Your opinion doesn't matter? You cannot be trusted to make your own decisions...yikes..that must be awful for the girl too!! I want your full name and address if you live in the USA...if you do your parents must be in the taliban!! scary.
2006-12-08 04:57:32 · answer #4 · answered by Marlin Darlin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, nothings impossible. My landlord had a relationship with a girl from the Phillippines for almost a year...He had a hard time writing letters, so I helped him when he went to the library.( Then he got on the internet looking at the pictures of the girls on Match Doctor.com. ) I helped him write to several girls until he found one he really liked...I wrote her letters for a few months until he went to the Phillippines to meet her...And several times after that...Now he's married to her( they live behind me now) here in Florida... I guess you could call me the match maker....Ha !! So, maybe you could just give it a try...remember, All Good Things Take Time...Good luck !!
2006-12-08 05:09:23 · answer #5 · answered by kimea29 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't marry her !! If you do you'll spend the rest of your life deeply unhappy. Explain this to your parents - I know it might be your religion but surely they don't want you to spend the rest of your life deeply unhappy. Anyway it's up to you & you ONLY whether you marry so just put your foot down & say that you are NOT in any circumstances going to marry her. if your parents say they are disappointed in you the tell them that you are even more disappointed in them that they would want you to be unhappy just to please them. Do NOT worry about your parents happiness or pleasing them - they are in no way considering your happiness by asking or expecting you to marry this girl that you hardly know.
2006-12-08 05:02:00 · answer #6 · answered by EmmaB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not do it. Remember that the final answer is yours and the bride's not your parents.
There are not many worse things than unhappy marriage.
And if you do it to avoid problems with your parents than you might get yourself even in a bigger problems in a long run. And than they might be not there to help you out. So don't do it if you don't feel good about it.
2006-12-08 05:06:52 · answer #7 · answered by qest 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would your parents want you to marry a girl that you dint like and have seen only seen once and only take to her i would not marry her
2006-12-08 04:57:23 · answer #8 · answered by EVA J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm.. nowadays chosing a partner is depends by your ownself. not like during the past, parents choose a life partner for you to get marry. So if you do not have feelings to that girl, then you should informed your parents.
2006-12-08 04:54:01 · answer #9 · answered by Kay 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ask your parents for lots of money to marry her - that might make it a bit better!
2006-12-08 04:53:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋