expelled! come out? can ya help???

Question

well heres the low down.

i posted an indirect threat to a teacher on my myspace, and now im expelled. the police found it n such. yes police monitor myspace.

well any who, ive known i am gay for, well, about 2 1/2 - 3 years.

i told everyone i made the threat thru anger, which is PARTIALLY true. really i was pissed at every1 being homophobic everywhere,
but i claimed it was conflict with my brother, whos 17, im 14.

now i go 2 a therapist who wants me 2 deal with my brother and my so-called perfectionism in the classroom. (must get prefect grades. bleh. i lie 2 much 2 conceal myself.)

anywho, im closeted and i just dont know if i should come out 2 everyone, just my therapist, (which is what I was thinkin of doin.), or tell no1 at all.

i have no time 4 gaybashing n such, just advice PLEASE!

yea ppl, ive tried God n such.

dont tell me that cuz ill read it, but im gonna ignore it.

God made me this way, if he even exists, which im not even sure of, but thats another story. i know u have good intentions, but to be blunt, DONT PATRONIZE ME!

Answer 1

I disgree with the previous poster.

Of course tell your therapist! A therapist doesn't have an emotional connection to you, so she/he can't be digusted or upset with you like your family may be. She/he can only be a listener/advice giver.

If you get used to sharing this with your therapist after awhile, it will eventually make you more comfortable to sharing with the people who matter most: your family.

Your therapist could also help you discuss how to share this with your family someday - help give you some ideas.

Therapists have dealt with homosexuality before - you won't be the first.

But yes, tell SOMEONE. This would answer so many people's questions about your recent behavior.

Answer 2

sucks about your expulsion.
for sure don't tell your therapist, unless you really trust him/her.
tell the people who matter in your life and would support your "outness"

Answer 3

this is not "gaybashing" but the truth is:

if we confess our sins, God is faithful and just to forgive us and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.

i urge you to turn to god, ask Him for help. He can help and guide you....

god bless