I know there is no one else, but if I call him I will look and sound desperate, but I can't get this off my mind...what should I do?
2006-12-07 20:05:05 · 16 answers · asked by marissa v 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Men need space, like grumpy old bears need caves. Sit on your fingers if you have to but let him be. Trust me
2006-12-07 20:09:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
i imagine he's drained of the argueing. Storming off doesn't remedy some thing and then later appearing as no longer some thing ensue?? he's probable aggravated. once you've in common words be at the same time 4 months you need to nonetheless be interior the satisfied in love level of your relationship. it really is too early for all that battling. some thing isn't precise. also seeing one yet another too a lot may reason a relationship to ruin. Couples opt to have their own lives as well. i'd provide him what he requested for, do not call, txt, IM or some thing and word if he comes decrease back to you. good luck, and if it doesn't paintings accessible are a tremendous number of fish interior the see which will appriciate you and love you!
2016-11-24 22:38:06 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of couples you see seem to think they have to hang on to or be with each other 24/7 what they're doing is growing together to a point that they actually become tired of there presence. It doesn't make there relationship close, it pushes it away, they get tired of the burden of living up to the expectations of the other person.
This is what is maybe happening to you. Give him space, he's recognized this and, wants some private time. Don't get jealous of "private time"
When I see these couples hanging on to each other like one is going to fall over if the other moved, this is too much. I never did that when I was "going steady" we accepted each others space and gave each other room, sometimes we'd see each other once a week because of our work schedules (we both worked while going to school) we lived through it. It made us "want" each other more for it.
2006-12-07 20:30:04 · answer #3 · answered by cowboydoc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know that this is one of the most horrible things a guy can say;be strong.I think,from my experience,that most guys have this hang-up about space,I mean they start to get too close and BAM! they freak out.All this means is he is falling for you ,HARD,so he's running away.God I hate that!But this is all it is.Eventually, they all come to their senses,but this may take a while.One thing that men of all ages can't stand is competition!If he were to see you hanging out with some other fine specimen,he might just think twice before he get's farther out in "space" Its not you,so hold yyour head up and ssshow him that there are other men out there too.
2006-12-07 20:18:24 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Everyone needs space. He may be having second thoughs and not ready to make a commitment yet.
Give him the time if you like him and if the matter persist, well you can also move on.
Good Luck
2006-12-07 20:09:35 · answer #5 · answered by sonisunny 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he needs space....
i told my boyfriend the same on wednesday night. well, only coz we've been fighting and i cant take the strain of a hectic job, mad family and that as well. if there have been any problems within the relationship... maybe thats the cause. call him, let him explain to you coz you dont understand. desperation? you're his girlfriend... you are allowed to call him. if he has issues, he shouldnt let you put your life on hold. either you in it together or not.... call him!
2006-12-07 20:15:25 · answer #6 · answered by Reb Da Rebel 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Get a hobby and stop obsessing...you're going to chase him away with your constant neediness and panic. Men need 'space' every so often to recharge the batteries; women need less of it, but think of your need for a hot bath with candles or your trips to the mall or your CONSTANT yakking on the phone about absolutely nothing; we don't get that either!
2006-12-07 20:12:16 · answer #7 · answered by wetdreamdiver 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Write in your diary or find some "guy friend" to hang around.
Eventually, he WILL come back.
Just give him some space. Maybe you've been thinking or talking to him too often. If you go almost a month without talking to him, he'll be the one that will want you back and you'll feel dominant.
<3
stranger.
2006-12-07 20:07:17 · answer #8 · answered by Stranger 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
It's over, for now... Sounds like he might have someone else he is seeing and wants to find out if that is going anywhere... If not, he'll be back... If it does, he'll ditch you fully...
Best to just say, YEAH, and move on with your life to find someone else who respects you more... :D
2006-12-07 20:09:35 · answer #9 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him what he asks for,it could be that hes not ready for a commitment yet or maybe he wants you and him to date other people to see if your the ones for each other
2006-12-07 20:17:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋