I meet a kind man, he is an africa-american. We chat warmly online. He invites me to go out with him this weekend. Can you show me some suggestions?
Thank you!
This the site we met ^_^ http://www.emilitarycenter.com/inter
2006-12-07 19:40:10 · 13 answers · asked by Helen Q 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
do u think its time?? how long have u chat with him? do u know his background? well, i think its dangerous to be going out with someone u met online. u don't who they really are.it's all up to u. are desperate in wanting to go out with him?? my advice is to be careful.
2006-12-07 20:51:58 · answer #1 · answered by Hamdi93 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My take is you be careful with this guy, especially with the fact that you met on-line. The best thing to do is ensure you meet in a public place like a restaurant, cafe and let the place be open and not secluded. In case anything happens, you are able to alert those around you and they may also be able to see in case something is wrong.
Secondly, you could tag along with a friend who does not necessarily have to sit with the two of you. Your friend could be at a nearby table just keeping a close watch at you.
Lastly, ensure you do not leave your food or drink unattended. Anything could be added to spice up your (you know what i mean...you could be dragged).
This is not to say the guy is Psycho...BUT BE AWARE
2006-12-07 22:16:37 · answer #2 · answered by divagal 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends how comfortable you are to do such thing. Also you have to put in consideration "trust" how much you trust this guy. Don't go alone. If you would go in a public place where there's a lot of people. Don't go for dinner...go for lunch or just coffee so if he's still nice and all that.. you can do something else or if he's far from what you thought he is... then you can just take off pretty much anytime...
Good luck and be safe!
2006-12-07 19:48:20 · answer #3 · answered by sk97us 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you sure you are going with him for the weekend? is it only for dinner? well i'm not saying that he is a bad man. but it's better to be safe than sorry.
i hope you have heard of stories about people meeting people in the internet. they thought that the other person is nice, good, or trustworthy. only to find out that the other person is a rapist or murderer. i'm not saying that he is. just try to be a careful. the best would be to have dinner so you could talk and get to know each other more. again, dinner only.
2006-12-07 20:23:36 · answer #4 · answered by Coolitz 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the internet may well be an extremely risky place to fulfill human beings. whether; in case you employ good experience you could meet good human beings, too. Please make specific in case you meet him you employ your guy or woman vehicle and meet him at a place that's actually lit and there are a number of human beings around. don't be with him on my own. are not getting in his vehicle for any reason, no rely how lots you think of he may well be depended on. that's often greater helpful to be risk-free than sorry. that could come later once you recognize one yet another greater helpful and experience safer. good success
2016-10-17 23:34:27 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BE VERY CAREFUL!!!! Keep it to a public place where others are all around you. Do not get into his car with him under any circumstances! Not until you know him MUCH better. Make sure someone knows where you have gone, give them ALL the inofrmation you can about him, where you are going, etc. Take your cell phone if you have one.
You don't know if he has been truthful with you about who he is, his background, etc. Don't take a chance your life on whether or not he has been honest with you.
2006-12-07 19:53:58 · answer #6 · answered by slick chik 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell him where you live
Drive yourself to the place you are to meet.
Meet in a public place.
When and if you feel uncomfortable, LEAVE
Tell someone where you are going, or take a friend with you for safety.
Be careful
2006-12-07 19:47:35 · answer #7 · answered by Jay 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Plan your meeting with him very well and be prepared for whatever untoward incident that may happen...expect the unexpected and don't trust him fully...it's so dangerous....Goodluck!!!!
2006-12-07 19:47:45 · answer #8 · answered by chona a 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself, and to be able to do that best is to try and be calm about this. He's probably a bit nervous about it himself.
Remember to look for eye contact, and really just be you...
Have fun at your date...
Good luck.
2006-12-07 19:50:16 · answer #9 · answered by StormyWeather 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
be honest, dont meet him alone. bring along your other friends. who knows? he might be a pervert or a bad person actually.
2006-12-07 19:45:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋