2006-12-07 19:34:25 · 17 answers · asked by choiwonil 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Obviously begin by telling her you are sorry. Apologies. But you might ask what it was that caused you to get angry. Where did the anger come from? Mostly we project our own anger onto others. If you got angry, look at what it was that made you angry and see if it wasn't something that you find in yourself. Did you wife do or say something that you often do yourself and dislike it when you do it? Was your anger really directed at you for not having done something you should have done? Look closely and see where the anger came from. then forgive yourself for having expressed your anger that way. And set an intention to examine yourself befor expressing your anger...and remember that you have a partner who has the same feelings you have. Work on it and good luck.
2006-12-07 19:40:15 · answer #1 · answered by judgebill 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Just apologize.
And remember to not get angry again.
Tell her how you feel. Tell her you want to reconcile, because you care too much about her. If she's not angry anymore, you should try to talk about your fight, and it's reasons. If you don't then it's left unsolved. During conversations about fights and arguments it's important to allways keep your temper down.
If this is a serious issue, then seek some marital counseling, before it's too broken to fix.
Good luck. I hope you and your wife are able to work it out.
2006-12-08 03:57:34 · answer #2 · answered by StormyWeather 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"I'm Sorry" is always the best way to start. And be prepared to say it several times before the situation turns around. And it's always helpful to know what you're sorry for and how you're never going to let it happen again. Good luck!
2006-12-08 03:38:27 · answer #3 · answered by joey_ploof 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, buy some flowers for her and take it to her yourself. Tell her you are sorry and that you love her very much. This should relax her enough so that you guys can start making up. Good Luck:)
2006-12-08 04:25:39 · answer #4 · answered by Jeannette E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you're sorry,explain to her why you got angry and work on expressing your feelings without yelling.Also gifts help ALOT
2006-12-08 03:44:14 · answer #5 · answered by lily_shaine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
APOLOGIZE!!!DUH? tell her you're very sorry and that you won't do it again,even though you will...my husband does that every time and it works.Sometimes we all have our bad days!!
and that's understandable,but try not to yell at her often...nobody likes to be yell at!!
good luck!! ;0)
2006-12-08 03:42:28 · answer #6 · answered by Ara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say "I'm sorry" and mean it and then go to a Marriage Counselor together. It will happen again until you get some help.
2006-12-08 03:37:22 · answer #7 · answered by ginger13 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you yell at her? Tell her you had your head up your *** and that you are truly sorry. If you love her, tell her. Be sensitive to her.
2006-12-08 03:38:11 · answer #8 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did you guys just get married? boy there is more to come in a normal relationship. about making up for it hmmmmm........hmmmmm........hmmmm....flowers, jewelry, money to go buy stuff, massage, clean the house,make dinner and oh dont forget to tell her that you are sorry.
2006-12-08 03:40:44 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first sincerely apologize, give her some affection (if she says no respect that) and then change your behavior, FYI, you don't have to yell to get your point across, it is disrespectful...
2006-12-08 03:42:42 · answer #10 · answered by kewtber 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋