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I had this older man as a boyfriend, and he alway accused me of cheating on him even if it was someone from school, including my babbys daddy. and tonight i caught him with another women. Prior to this jacked feeling i was forced to experiance, he has called me out of my name( i stepped back for a min to gather my self an address the issue of being emotionaly and verbaly abused), tried to stop me from having male friends ( no sexual relationships what so ever) and what makes things worse is my children experianced catching him with another woman, resulting in him acting like he was on the phone with a friend asking " why is your daughter here and your not." more so this female was at his house two days before. I thought something was going on but i tried to give him the benifit of doubt. I guess i was right and should have trusted my gut feelings. So why is it that men cant just tell you its over? I tried to make it work due to my children liking this so called man.

2006-12-07 19:27:26 · 19 answers · asked by your_thickness 1 in Family & Relationships Other - Family & Relationships

I all way make it a point to tell the men i choose to date. If one of my children do not like you then you have to go. Reason is my mother put a man before me resulting in my self never wanting to put my own children in that situation. I have three daughters 16,14,6 yrs old including a son that is 13. I had all ready told this so called man that he was good for my children and not for me. Im a hard working mom that takes care of four children, along with a cat, dog, work part time and attends college full time. I am a home body if go any my children are with me. My children are the ones that keep me going and stay on track. I am very close to my children and 3 of them are almost grown.

2006-12-10 18:35:25 · update #1

It seem that him, is not a good role modle for my children after all.

2006-12-10 18:38:10 · update #2

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men cant do that because it is not in their nature, you should realize that and you will be happier

2006-12-07 19:29:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 2

No, they are not. I have met men that are kind and caring. I have also met men that aren't so nice. It's what they choose to behave like in life and how they were raised by their parents. If they were abused by their parents or one parent then they will act it out with the person they are involved with.

They need to get their emotions healed on the inside. I think that even men get hurt and they could be hurting on the inside which makes them much more prone to becoming violent and also hurtful to others.

Most men who are abusive will hide their feelings and you won't know what's going on inside because they don't talk about it. Not all men will admit that they need counselling mainly because men may be brought up to think that is looked down on.

I think that at any rate if a man is abusive with you then you need to leave him and move on. Get outside help for yourself. If a man is that controling then leave because it could get much worse for you.

Find a womans help line on line or call one in your area. Do it when he is not around. This is not something you can work out with him.

Ask your self this why is the crime rates so high with men? Why do most men kill? Think about that. I think there is a lot of pressure put on men.

2006-12-08 03:43:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

It seems like you have had your share of dog-ish men. Be hopeful, though, because there are tons of men out there who are just simply awesome (although the most awesome one is already taken, sorry), so just hang in there.

Also, having come from a "broken home," as an adult, I now really appreciate the fact that my parents did not ever introduce me to their "significant others" until it was apparent that it was going to be a lasting relationship. I cannot imagine having gotten attached to boyfriends/girlfriends and then having to watch them walk away. Consider separating your dating life from your children, and then you won't ever have to "try to make it work due to the children."

Good luck!

2006-12-08 03:33:31 · answer #3 · answered by bashnick 6 · 0 0

There are always dogs, I know, since they are aquaintances of mine. I hear them talk, and it disgusts me. Unfortunately, women usually turn down men like me in favor of the dogs that you describe, usually for money, fame, or some other reason that just baffles me. Then it comes out that all men are dogs, but why did you choose the dog in the first place, when there are guys like me that get passed up in your judgement. I have not figured out women, so that is why I treat my wife with respect and honor, so that she will not ask why all men are dogs.

2006-12-08 03:32:17 · answer #4 · answered by kaliroadrager 5 · 1 0

99% of the time when someone is obsessive about accusing you of somthing in a relationship it's b/c they are prone to doing it themselves. To answer your question no all men are not like that. It's hard to find a good guy but keep in mind it's hard for us guys to find a good girl too. I guess you just have to deal with the trail and error untill you find that special person for you.

2006-12-08 03:32:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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2006-12-08 04:01:03 · answer #6 · answered by i am not a lovely girl i am cute 4 · 0 0

Well you need to get tested for diseases because he is sleeping with you and anothe woman. Love isn't decided by your children and he should be called out for what he is a cheater. Divorce him and take everything he has. All men aren't pigs, but this one sure is.

2006-12-08 03:32:11 · answer #7 · answered by danielschmidt94521 3 · 0 0

Nope...they're not! Because if they are...that makes you a pup. (Just kidding.) "Thinkers are doers". You see...he keep on accusing you actions that he himself is doing on you. Wake up girl ! The only thing left in us is our dignity as a person...don't let this kind of a "mongrel" drag you into his doghouse kind of environment. Why waste your precious time worrying this kind ...if you are not happy with him anymore. Move on...look onward...there are still more breed in the open...just make sure ...it belongs to the human specie this time. Cheer up...life is still worth living with an intact dignity as a woman and a mom to your children. Good luck!

2006-12-08 04:11:24 · answer #8 · answered by dimma59 3 · 0 0

All men who have yet to evolve have tendencies to be *****, jerks or dogs. The guy you describe is a Neanderthal. Ger out and find a man who really love you.

2006-12-08 03:35:29 · answer #9 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 0 0

no, you found a loser. There are several good men out there. Try again, ditch the zero, don't introduce your children til you're confident with the person your dating.

single father of two.

2006-12-08 03:33:16 · answer #10 · answered by dsolsi 2 · 0 0

You must be going thru rough time.
Its better not to generalise on remote cases. I think there are good people out there. Unfortunately you didn't meet them.

2006-12-08 03:45:19 · answer #11 · answered by Sanju_the_gr8 4 · 0 0

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