about the past!
2006-12-07 18:38:07 · 6 answers · asked by Axierona 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
tell me what is it?
2006-12-07 18:40:57 · update #1
i've blamed myself when i knew it was my fault.
2006-12-07 19:04:50 · answer #1 · answered by ladygardenia06 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone does! Were only human...But are you really the blame, or are you just feeling bad? We all can think of a million "ifs", if we permit ourselves to think long enough on one thing. This is an example-but to the extreme-let's say your best friend committed suicide, and you later felt you could of helped her, because you were her best friend. That is not totally true because your not in charge of your friends happiness, and you may not have been aware she was even going to do it. Playing the blame game gets you no where, it's done, and over, and in the past-move on. I am sure you didn't do it in vain.
2006-12-07 18:53:06 · answer #2 · answered by sue d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes i use to blame myself all the time, even when things were not my fault. That is before i found Jesus and he change my life completely
May God bless you and have a great day
2006-12-07 18:45:03 · answer #3 · answered by jan d 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. i do not blame myself. there is some other link that bothers me -- that i could have done things differently. that i should have done things differently. in those two cases -- both are "me" --yet there is no blame but regrets. now, if i understand well --you make a decision and along the way it goes "astray" -- is this because of you or because of outside events out of your own control. that is the real question. hope the asker will see clearer after he/she reads this answer and understands its meaning. good question in both cases.
2006-12-07 18:49:30 · answer #4 · answered by s t 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah many times before but manage to catch up on the mistake before it got to me.
2006-12-07 18:46:05 · answer #5 · answered by maggotier 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah when its been my fault in a way sure
2006-12-07 18:39:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋