Met this girl online and we're meeting for a movie and dinner tomorrow night. We've emailed each other about 5 or 6 times, just exchanged phone #'s, she said what she liked about my profile was that I seemed "boyfriend oriented" in that I'm not just looking for imtimacy, but I want the same thing as her, a relattionship. She said she has a belly button ring, I said those are cute, she asked where I'm planning on getting mine...I said nipple and "um one other place..." she said, "your choice of piercings sound interesting wink wink. nipple rings are hot!" she said she's glad how she describes herself interests me "especially the affectionate part (when im with someone)" she said shes likes im driven with becoming a teacher...she said yes she would like to meet up for dinner and a movie. arranged the time, she gave me her cell first.
soo my question is...should i just watch the movie with her n chat before it starts....or chat before it starts etc and then put my arm around her during
2006-12-07 18:34:22 · 4 answers · asked by ? 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
it? should i kiss her too? and my arm around her? or just my arm? or neither?
i'm just curious what peoples opinions are. in the end i'll end up doing what i feel would be best and based on her signals/body language.
2006-12-07 18:34:37 · update #1
Hmmm...you might just want to start chattin with her first. You dont want her to think you were just puttin up a front. You just have to feel out the evening...and how akward or comfortable it is...just go with the flow..if you hit it off, yeah put your arm around her, but if it still seems akward...just wait it out.
2006-12-07 18:44:09 · answer #1 · answered by Eli's Mommy08 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
These first six items are really basic and somewhat laughable, but when it comes to dating, some guys self-destruct before leaving their home. So here are some well tested dating tips (mainly for the guys) that should happen whether you are going out with a woman. * Dress nicely * Comb your hair * Brush your teeth – PLEASE * Wear deodorant – DOUBLE PLEASE * If you are driving – Clean up your vehicle inside and out * And always bring along your sense of humor Pray – Before you even leave home to meet your date you need to spend time on your knees asking God to help you honor Him and your date. You can never go wrong with prayer. This will also put you in the proper mind-set for your time together. Talk a lot – There’s no better way to get to know someone than by talking to them about a wide variety of topics. The more you talk, the more you will begin to know if this might be a relationship that you should pursue. Dating is a wonderful experience and should be enjoyed by both people, if she want to eat and order a lot... let her do it. If you are two were comfortable with each other, then open up the issue of loosing her weight but in a very nice and sweet way. Good luck to the two of you.
2016-05-23 05:53:14 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been on a few internet dates.I can only tell you what I would from an internet date. I too was looking for a relationship and not just sex, so if I went out for dinner and a movie, I would like for the guy to chat before the movie, but I would think it was very corny for him to put his arm around me. When I say corny, I mean it seems young, high school like. I wouldn't want a guy to get too touchy, feely on the first date. Maybe a kiss on the cheek after the night is over if it goes well. You need to leave her wanting more. If you enjoyed the date, then tell her you really enjoyed the evening and would like to do it again soon. But again, I would hold out on the physical stuff if you really want to persue a relationship.
Rent the movie "Hitch" and buy, "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus." Both give great dating advice!
Good luck. And relax!
2006-12-07 18:42:51 · answer #3 · answered by onyx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just really do what she and u r comfortable with. dont go forcing the issue coz u might get undesired results. good luck.
2006-12-07 18:56:57 · answer #4 · answered by *lil miss* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋