Ok I've been debating who I can ask this certain question to, whether my trusted advisor or instructor who is both women.
My question: When a male instructor comes on to you or looks at your chest or eyes you inappropriately, will you get suspended if you slapped him or told him to *#@#% off?
suggestions?
2006-12-07 17:41:39 · 7 answers · asked by i_ship_jolie_pitt_aniston_2getha 1 in Education & Reference ➔ Higher Education (University +)
If your advisor is in the same department as this lecherous professor, speak to her.
If your instructor is in the same department as the professor, speak to her.
If they are both in the same department, see whichever of them is more highly ranked or has the most years in the department.
We women academics have developed, during our years of experience, ways of stopping men from harrassing women students. A female professor in the same department as the offending male will know the departmental politics, and will thus be aware of the best methods to stop this man from harassing students.
And unfortunately, any physical response in this case *could* be construed as assault, and jeopardize your education. A measured verbal response would be wiser. I suggest something like: "Your ogling and your come-ons are inappropriate. If they continue, I will file a complaint with the appropriate authorities."
2006-12-08 04:53:23 · answer #1 · answered by X 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you may get into trouble, it is an assault on the teacher. BUT the teacher has NO right what so ever to look at you inappropriately or come on to you. You must tell someone who works in the school, and they will get the ball rolling. Under no circumstances what so ever they cannot do anything to anyone.
2006-12-08 01:46:38 · answer #2 · answered by joanna_anna7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be assertive rather than aggressive. Tell him that he is making you uncomfortable. If he continues, he will be sexually harassing you, which is against the law. Allow the university to deal with him. You could get in trouble if you use aggression to counter his actions.
2006-12-08 03:36:37 · answer #3 · answered by Incognito 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yuck! do not sleep with him!
if you feel uncomfortable, look at him funny.. in a way that he knows your not comfortable with the way he 'eyes' you. if it persists, definately say something about it to him.. in a nice way, but be direct! if it still continues, tell the dean! then you can slap him!! :)
2006-12-08 01:51:38 · answer #4 · answered by m. z. 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
With out a dot. if you kindly ask him to keep the work place professional-no one can disagree with that
2006-12-08 01:44:50 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might be best if you just sleep with him and not say anything. Who knows there might be an "A" in it for ya?
2006-12-08 01:47:28 · answer #6 · answered by Mason A 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
no
2006-12-08 01:53:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋