When you find out a "friend" has been repeating everything you say about someone else to that person?......Do just leave them alone,or confront them first??
2006-12-07 17:26:08 · 10 answers · asked by Direktor 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Have you ever successfully confronted a parrot?
2006-12-07 17:28:20 · answer #1 · answered by Piguy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That friend is no friend.Sounds like that friend is trying to start some trouble for you.Best thing would be to confront theat persone tell her/he you know what she/he has been doing,then say 'well its obvious that I can't discuss anything with you because you run and tell like a kid'. Then that person will get all defensive and then you know what eles to say. Good luck!
2006-12-08 01:33:21 · answer #2 · answered by Joan C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave that person alone for sure. A friend would never spill the beans also if you don't want someone to know something you must never tell a living soul.
2006-12-08 01:28:42 · answer #3 · answered by moniiluv17 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you wanted to keep those things secret and expressed to your talkative friend, then you should confront him/her. But either way, if you don't want it repeated it should be said.
2006-12-08 01:30:06 · answer #4 · answered by shirah_life 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's the rule: if you want to keep a secret, don't tell anyone.
You owe this tattletale nothing, least of all an explanation. Just cut her off without a word and have nothing further to do with her.
2006-12-08 01:31:28 · answer #5 · answered by Bethany 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give them the cold shoulder so they will know something's not cool. If they don't straighten up, confront them and then dump them.
2006-12-08 01:28:34 · answer #6 · answered by MARIE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to find new friends. Trust is the central part of any relationship and this is a person you cannot trust.
2006-12-08 01:28:10 · answer #7 · answered by w 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
me personally, i elimate that person from my life. they are not your friend. they use you and they want to be that persons friend. if you know the facts are true, just ignore them, and when they...coinfront you about it...tell them what you said in your question and tell them that you cannot be friends with them, no matter what they day, because you know they are not trust worthy, or friend capable.
2006-12-08 01:30:27 · answer #8 · answered by trust2400 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say just leave them and walk a way.
2006-12-08 01:28:22 · answer #9 · answered by rashid j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find a friendlier friend..
2006-12-08 01:27:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋