I am in love with a younger woman. She loves me but not the same way. As bad as I hate that I am okay with that. I really would like to give her oral sex, but she does not have to do anything for me, I just want to make her feel good. Is this okay or a bad move? If you think it is okay how excatly should I ask her? If a girl told me she just wanted to give me oral I would be for it .. but I think that is just being a guy.
2006-12-07 17:13:45 · 9 answers · asked by Diddly 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
The girl happens to be 25.,
2006-12-07 17:33:32 · update #1
I wish my husband were as enthusiastic and eager to please me. This woman is lucky.
However, I must ask how old this girl is. Becarefull if you are 18 and she is younger. Don't persue anything too strong.
2006-12-07 17:15:55 · answer #1 · answered by Peanut Butter 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm.. thats an interesting question. Oral sex is different for a guy, than it is for a girl. realize that. Its easier for a girl. and its more "normal" for a girl to do it to a guy... so if your planning to give her oral sex.. it might be uneasy, and unnerving. I know i had been doing that to my bf for a while before he decided to try it on me.. I was really freaked out by that.. I thought it would be really weird. It was pleasing, but it was still weird. we only did that once.. so I don't know what to tell you, but expect some oddness, especially if you guys aren't too sexually active like that.
2006-12-08 01:17:46 · answer #2 · answered by Jozzie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She doesnt love you the same way? That sounds like she is trying to tell you nicely that she is not interested in you as a bf so you may very well offend her if you tell her about wanting to give her oral sex. I guess if you ask her out right you may be surpised - one way or another.......
2006-12-08 01:18:30 · answer #3 · answered by kay f 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u are okay with her not caring about u as much as u do her, and she wants to do this, then I dont see why not.
But how young is she? Because if its illegal then no.
Since she is younger u have to be extra sure shes ready and wants to. But no matter what if she does not feel that way about u she might not want it. It might be weird to ask and theres a chance shell say no. I would say no if I did not love him.
2006-12-08 01:18:00 · answer #4 · answered by M'Lyn 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
look, forget about the whole thing. she's not interested in you in the same way, and it will remain that way. face it, you're older than her, maybe way too older, so it's realistic on your part to just let her go, because she's going to find the person near her age.
2006-12-08 01:17:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you wanna do her with no pleasure in return. but, if i guy just wants to do me that is fine and dandy im not turning down a trip to ecatasy for noone and dont have to take you with me, even better.
2006-12-08 01:19:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey there is nothing wrong with wanting to please a women just ask her I'm sure she would not object but if she does something is wrong with her I wish u were my man because if he does that to me he always expects something back. Where are u located? Just joking!! but i do wish u were my man....
2006-12-08 01:18:22 · answer #7 · answered by jsxy695 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bad move dude... let her be the one to make the first move , she just may be testing you ... do you want to flunk out early!
2006-12-08 01:17:03 · answer #8 · answered by MagikButterfly 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She should consider herself lucky!
2006-12-08 07:21:33 · answer #9 · answered by Eat At The Y 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shooot! go-head and eat the muff, if she's like me, she's turned on by older men.
2006-12-08 01:17:34 · answer #10 · answered by Téa LaFaye 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋