2006-12-07 17:10:40 · 12 answers · asked by JoshsGirl 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
the number one concern is--is she comfortable with it?
things that a woman liked before she may not like now...in fact what was good yesterday may be terrible today!
the further along the pregnancy goes the more sensitive she will be, and the more likely she is to become uncomfortable with something.
it is a good idea to check with the doctor, just in case, but really all they'll advise you on is the same thing i'm saying, unless there's actually something wrong (sometimes doctors say no sex at all!)
by the middle of the second trimester (that's about half way through the pregnancy), the walls of her vagina and her cervix may become much more sensitive and even the gentlest of sex can cause some bleeding. if this happens, and is in very small amounts, think just a few drops or so, then (still tell the doctor about it) it's a sign that you should go easier, or consider using extra lubricants with sexual activity, because next time you could wind up doing something much worse.
it is highly unlikely that you can do any damage without her feeling discomfort and pain (and not a kind that she'll enjoy) so be clear & communicative, use a "safe word" if that's the kind of sex you're having, and just be 110% willing to stop if something doesn't feel right.
oh, and keep in mind that many pregnant women's body's don't lubricate themselves the way that they did prior to pregnancy (meaning they don't get wet, or as wet, even when turned on) so using lubrication is always a good idea!
2006-12-07 17:27:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Rough sex is fine as long as you are both enjoying it and it doesn't get out of hand. Sex toys are fine too but just make sure you wash them well before and afterwards. You don't say how pregnant you are and I did always take it a little slower sexually in the first three months, but once that baby is established it is so well protected in there that you'll be fine. The cramping can happen after a gentle session too, and several of my friends had spotting after even pretty light sex but were told that was okay. However if the pains and cramping continue, do go and see your health-care provider and be totally honest with them as they are unshockable!
2016-05-23 05:44:39 · answer #2 · answered by Susan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A woman is not suppose to lay on her stomach or right side during pregnancy so I would say rough sex would be out of the question. If I was that mom to be, the answer would be NO. Besides you dont want to cause any risk to the child, do you?
2006-12-07 17:22:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Rough sex is never good. If by rough, u mean vigorous it is ok till about six weeks prior to the due date but the posture has to be changed to take note of the circumstances.
2006-12-07 17:20:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You have to be careful but you can have sex until she is 5 months pregnant. if you want to know more ask your doctor.
2006-12-07 18:20:18 · answer #5 · answered by ANTO 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes! I would check with your dr. But only you know your comfort zone
2006-12-07 17:19:49 · answer #6 · answered by froggielover72 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Within reason. Remember she's got a really small baby in her belly.
2006-12-07 17:19:27 · answer #7 · answered by BigPappa 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
no advisable as if it's too rough, you will suffer miscarriage or you will feel pain in your lower abdomen....
2006-12-07 17:20:34 · answer #8 · answered by jims_bong 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Check with your obgyn, but I wouldn't think so, you could rip/tear something inside!!!
2006-12-07 17:17:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I don't think so. Unless you like your child to have a dented forehead.
2006-12-07 17:18:58 · answer #10 · answered by alcor805 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋