you guys i talkd to my kid she said she was haveing sex and she injoys it now what do i do she said she has ben doing it with alot ok ppl help me
2006-12-07 16:53:20 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
she is only 9 years old help me she has ben haveing sex she even said she was raped help me
2006-12-07 17:03:11 · update #1
nine is way to early , take her to a counsler , it might help , but nowdays most girls aren't virgins after age 12 , whats wrong with this world anymore
2006-12-08 02:54:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess this would depend a lot on her age!! But I would recommend continuing to be open with your daughter. You probably won't want to hear this, but she is going to do it whether you want her to or not. At least if you are open with her, you can make sure that she knows that you are concerned, help her to obtain items ensuring safe sex practices (e.g. condoms, birth control etc.) and she will be less likely to be afraid to tell you if something happens and she needs your help.
Good luck
Another good tactic is to enroll her into a human sexuality course. The course would teach her things about std's that most people don't know (such as long term effects, symptoms, how easy they are to contract, and what would be needed to cure them if there was a cure.....e.g. most women have no symptoms when they get chlamydia, they won't know they have it unless their partner tells them that they have had it, or until their regular pap. If the disease goes untreated it can result in the inablility to concieve permanently.)
2006-12-08 00:58:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
shes 9? dont you know where your kid is? who she hangs out with? where she goes when she isnt at home, if she has been raped maybe it would of helped if you would of nown, dont you do her laundry did you see any blood? i think your kid would be safer and probly better off in someone elses care. and if she is 9 and already knows about sex? where did she learn it from? she probly just copied something she seen you watching porn or not locking your bed room door. this makes me sick i have a 9 yr old and she knows nothing about sex she calls her vagina a cricket for christ sake. you are her parent you are supose to protect her you didnt do your job. thumbs down me ppl all you want but i dont care a 9 yr old come on. 9 is still a baby she needs a parent that is more involved in her life than what it sounds like you are. and she needs a good positive role model not some one thats all about sex. she had to of learned about sex from some where a normal 9 yr old dont pick this up on there own. and why dont you press charges on anyone that has touched her. im pretty sure she isnt sexually active with a bunch of 9 yr olds. so why dont you show her its wronge take a list of names that she says shes been with and if your any parent at all hopefully you know at least half the ppl she names and press charges. you should of had that mommy daughter talk about how its not ok ever for any one to touch you down there and if they do you tell mommy as soon as it happens because its not ok. you in my book failed as a parent.
2006-12-08 01:16:14 · answer #3 · answered by cute redhead 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Most 9-year-olds do not have sex.
She needs to be seen by a psychiatrist for therapy because this behavior is NOT normal for her age. Also take her to the doctor for a Gyn checkup. Since she is sexually active, she needs to be checked.
She should also be grounded and closely watched by a responsible adult to ensure this behavior stops.
2006-12-08 00:57:50 · answer #4 · answered by Nancy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
since you have not mentioned about her age as to how old is she? if she is above 18 years then you need not to worry and educateher and talk with her explaining the risks etc, and get her on birth control and also discuss contraception.
and if she below 18 years then of cource you take the matter to the police
2006-12-08 00:59:24 · answer #5 · answered by rulethisworldman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it's because of the said rape..maybe unconciously she mask that fear (of being raped) or have actually enjoyed it after some time of doing it and get into sexual acts. you should let her talk to a therapist or someone who is speciallized in this areas. she's too young to have sex and also she could have faced such consequences like pregnancy, std's, etc.
2006-12-08 02:47:46 · answer #6 · answered by jae 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old is she? If she is having sex with a lot of people it is important to talk to her (calmly and at length ) about risks, contraception and sexually transmitted diseases. You are probably very shocked and angry now, but her health is the most important thing.
2006-12-08 00:59:40 · answer #7 · answered by vmh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old is she? I think you should talk to her about the consequences of sex, like STD's and pregnancy. Doing it with a lot of people is not a good thing for someone young, she could be putting herself in danger. You need to talk to her about this... good luck.
2006-12-08 00:56:11 · answer #8 · answered by I carry your heart with me... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well your basically a terrible mother....okay the rape part isnt your fault but come on shes nine years old.....how could you not notice soemthing!!!!...im twice her age and in highschool and i havent even had sex....ya know why....cause my mom raised me to know the facts.....so i waited....in my opinion you need to get her to a doctor asap......and maybe sit her down and talk to her....take her to counseling......all i know is that if shes old enough to still need a babysitter she is way too young to be having sex
2006-12-08 08:41:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bring her for counselling. A neutral party would be more effective in sex education..
2006-12-08 00:58:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋