I find that people not listening to me, and don't care, Like I m not here....what to do?

Question

Sometimes, people ask me what do I think about some matters or so, but at the end , they do not listen to me,
Ather time, I start conversation, and ending up that people keep talking without me, like I m not here anymore and no one asking for My opinion.
that makes me feel Faithless in myself,
what to do, how make people care... and respect me?

Answer 1

I know EXACTLY what you mean.
But let me tell you something...it's better to be the one to sit back and listen than to be one of the talkers. You'd be surprised at what you can learn about things and mostly about ppl and their ways by just listening.
Being a good listener is an art....one that if you master, it'll reward you over and over again.
Good Luck!

Answer 2

Just wondering but are you a quite type a person? I use to be really quite and then if I did talk people were not fully paying attention to me. Now I'm a lot more vocal and people seem to listen better. Of couse not everyone. Some people are just wrapped up in their own little world and can be rude. So if you feel that may be the case, next time they ask your advice just be upfront and tell them you don't feel they really listen when you give advice so they should decided on their own.

Answer 3

It sounds like you may need to work on your listening skills and drop off the talking so much. A good listener wins more friends than the talker. Everyone wants to be heard so work on that.

Answer 4

depends on what kinda people you're having conversation with, if they're older than you, it's quite normal for this to occur, because they think they know more than you do; if they're your good friends, tell them what you feel about not being listened. don't be shy, just speak up and people will listen to you.

Answer 5

I would have to know more about you to give you a fair answer sweetie .

Answer 6

I agree with judypunch

Answer 7

Just be yourself and your desires will come into focus.

Answer 8

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