1) My friend just hooked up w/ this guy who is 21 (we are 15) and well she "likes" him and he I don't know...it doesn't seem liek he has had any other girlfriend i'd guess 1, 2 tops. and well how do i explain to her that she shouldn't be dating him??
2) I think I like one of my closest friends bf.....I don't know....I talk to him and stuff and someone in one of our clases asked me if I liked him ofcourse I said no. But I hope not.
2006-12-07 16:26:30 · 8 answers · asked by d3adbc 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
her mom is aware of his age.
her dad wouldn't be cool w/ it.
it's werird.
2006-12-07 16:35:24 · update #1
for the 2nd thingy..well they just started dating about a month ago...i've known then both for about 3 years...her she is one of my closest friends...i dont wnat to get between them...but i cant help jst kiding around with him I am not flirting I hopr or think
2006-12-07 16:43:08 · update #2
Omg, I don't even know where to begin with this. Is she aware that 15 and 21 isn't the brightest of ideas?
There are danger signs all over this guy. No 21 y.o. "good guy" would date a 15 y.o., sorry, not happening.
You need to point out the chances of her getting date raped are increased now, along with stalking behavior and abuse. You really should let her parents know about this, or your own parents, so they can tell her parents.
About your friend's bf? Highschool-- people date in circles, and that's normal. Don't kiss him, don't flirt with him. If he breaks up with her, he's fair game, but not until that happens. Be cool, you can like him all you want. But if you go out of your way to break them up or have him cheat on your friend with you, you will regret it. TRUST ME on that.
2006-12-07 16:33:16 · answer #1 · answered by katya_annalotovich_x 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant force your friend not to date him but let her know that hes too old for her and god knows at his age already hes had sex with alot of girls.
as far as you ...you need to chill..there are plenty of other fish in the sea that are not taken so set your eyes on someone else before a fight breaks out over a guy thats not worth fighting over..damn you girls are too young to be worrying about the guys that arent gonna remember your name in a year or two..
2006-12-08 00:32:09 · answer #2 · answered by angelbaby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For the first one, tell her if she cares for this guy, she'll back off because he could wind up in jail as a pedophile. For the second one, ask the guy if this is going anywhere?
Good luck.
2006-12-08 00:34:40 · answer #3 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well hun i can only answer the frist one your friend is to young to be liking someone that old because you never know what he my do
2006-12-08 00:34:12 · answer #4 · answered by leahstone67 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this is not cool, don't even think about it. your not her friend if you take your best friends boyfriend.
2006-12-08 00:44:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you got issues on your hands my friend
2006-12-08 00:29:27 · answer #6 · answered by Mandy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uuhhh...I thought that was statutory rape!
2006-12-08 00:48:14 · answer #7 · answered by BabyRuth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) juz try n talk 2 her...get her 2 realize it
2) idk
2006-12-08 00:50:59 · answer #8 · answered by sweet babe 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋